Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 36
Status Single
Height 173cm
Weight 77kg
Body shape Curvy
Eye colour Green
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Middle
Orientation Bisexual
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Part shaved
Body hair None
Breast size D
Zodiac signs Gemini
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
I can speak English
German
French

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I’m a female sub wanting to explore my sexuality after many years away from the BDSM world.

Vanilla me is a student nurse, on my second degree and I enjoy hiking, an occasional run, snowboarding, appreciating art in whatever form it takes, cooking, music and cinema.

Submissive me is a masochist at heart: nothing pleases me more than feeling a paddle against my bare skin or receiving a good flogging. I am also partial to anal play and will often wear my butt plug to complete everyday tasks. I am of a very open mindset when it comes to trying new play as I feel that you can not truly say something is a hard limit unless you’ve tried it once.

Genuine kinksters only please. No one who can talk the talk but not walk the walk as Dom/subs should. I am happy to interact with genuine Dom(mes) searching a sub, couples looking for a third or sub or female subs who would like a playmate.

I am happy to send pics privately and chat over KiK. From a visual perspective I am 5’ 8’’, size 14, 36d, dark curly shoulder length hair.

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Spankmehard18
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  • 30.09.2018 0:25:22
  • Female (36)
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I’m a female sub wanting to explore my sexuality after many years away from the BDSM world.

Vanilla me is a student nurse, on my second degree and I enjoy hiking, an occasional run, snowboarding, appreciating art in whatever form it takes, cooking, music and cinema.

Submissive me is a masochist Read more… at heart: nothing pleases me more than feeling a paddle against my bare skin or receiving a good flogging. I am also partial to anal play and will often wear my butt plug to complete everyday tasks. I am of a very open mindset when it comes to trying new play as I feel that you can not truly say something is a hard limit unless you’ve tried it once.

Genuine kinksters only please. No one who can talk the talk but not walk the walk as Dom/subs should. I am happy to interact with genuine Dom(mes) searching a sub, couples looking for a third or sub or female subs who would like a playmate.

I am happy to send pics privately and chat over KiK. From a visual perspective I am 5’ 8’’, size 14, 36d, dark curly shoulder length hair.
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  • 09.09.2018 18:48:16
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  • 03.09.2018 16:43:25
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A sub training a Dom: is this really possible?

Really appreciate all of the feedback so far.
Thanks all
Rae x

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  • 30.08.2018 11:01:56
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A sub training a Dom: is this really possible?

Thanks for this Sumiso: very much appreciated. x

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  • 30.08.2018 9:02:18
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A sub training a Dom: is this really possible?
So I met a man (who was kink inclined when I first started fucking him) who I’ve told that I’m a sub and what I like. He’s become very excited and interested by this fact and has asked if I can train him to become my Dom.
This is totally new territory for me and am not even sure if a sub can train Read more…a Dom. I’ve obviously pointed him in the direction of various websites and books.
I’m very happy to help him on his journey but as I’ve zero experience of this don’t want to invest time and effort for something that is unrealistic. I’d really appreciate any feedback from subs who have done this or any Dom thoughts on this.
Thanks,
Rae
LikeWelikeittight2906, Sumiso · 17 Replies
Lo7tus A good dom should find out what a sub really wants and help them make it happen, not just randomly boss a sub around or just meet their own needs. In my view and experience anyway, so he could start with this. A good dom should find out what a sub really wants and help them make it happen, not just randomly boss a sub around or just meet their own needs. In my view and experience anyway, so he could start with this.
Like · 13.09.2018 22:28:27
subbbn
subbbn as a sub I've spoken to a few newbe doms and gave them some advise on how a sub likes to be handled and its not cookie cutter each sub is different as a sub I've spoken to a few newbe doms and gave them some advise on how a sub likes to be handled and its not cookie cutter each sub is different
Like · 12.09.2018 21:38:10
BadTaste_Ted
BadTaste_Ted Got to start somewhere I guess the difference is whether they continue to follow a script or gain the confidence to start thinking independently. I believe sub can train a Dom but not necessarily your Dom Got to start somewhere I guess the difference is whether they continue to follow a script or gain the confidence to start thinking independently. I believe sub can train a Dom but not necessarily your Dom
Like · 05.09.2018 20:27:55
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Spankmehard18
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  • 29.08.2018 19:43:55
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
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I’m a female sub wanting to explore my sexuality after many years away from the BDSM world.

Vanilla me is a student nurse, on my second degree and I enjoy hiking, an occasional run, snowboarding, appreciating art in whatever form it takes, cooking, music and cinema.

Submissive me is a masochist Read more… at heart: nothing pleases me more than feeling a paddle against my bare skin or receiving a good flogging. I am also partial to anal play and will often wear my butt plug to complete everyday tasks. I am of a very open mindset when it comes to trying new play as I feel that you can not truly say something is a hard limit unless you’ve tried it once.

Genuine kinksters only please. No one who can talk the talk but not walk the walk as Dom/subs should. I am happy to interact with genuine Doms searching a sub or female subs who would like a playmate. I am currently training a Dom on an ad hoc basis.

I am happy to send pics privately and chat over KiK. From a visual perspective I am 5’ 8’’, size 14, 36d, dark curly shoulder length hair.
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  • 21.08.2018 7:48:40
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Bi fem subs I want a playmate: any takers?
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  • 20.08.2018 19:58:05
  • Female (36)
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Female bi sub seeks female bi sub

Hi,

I’m a female sub wanting to explore my sexuality after many years away from the BDSM world and want a female bi sub to enlighten my journey.

Vanilla me is a student nurse, on my second degree and I enjoy hiking, an occasional run, snowboarding, appreciating Read more… art in whatever form it takes, cooking, music and cinema.

Submissive me is a masochist at heart: nothing pleases me more than feeling a paddle against my bare skin or receiving a good flogging. I am also partial to anal play and will often wear my butt plug to complete everyday tasks. I am of a very open mindset when it comes to trying new play as I feel that you can not truly say something is a hard limit unless you’ve tried it once.

Genuine subs only please. No subs who can talk the talk but not walk the walk as a sub should. Although I would be happy to share my experience and desires with a newly interested female should they be genuine.

I am happy to send pics privately and chat over KiK. From a visual perspective I am 5’ 8’’, size 14, 36d, dark curly shoulder length hair.
Spankmehard18
  • 14.08.2018 0:55:06
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