Status

Not single

In a relationship with Ask me

Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 36
Status Not single
Height 173cm
Weight 77kg
Body shape Curvy
Eye colour Green
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Middle
Orientation Bisexual
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Part shaved
Body hair None
Breast size D
Zodiac signs Gemini
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
I can speak English
German
French

About me

I’m looking for:

Description

Hi I’m Rae, a bisexual fem sub.

I welcome contact from genuine Doms, Dommes, couples who are seeking a third or fem subs looking for a playmate. No fakes, wannabes or time wasters: I’m getting pretty good at gauging genuineness as I’ve encountered so many ☹️.

Vanilla me is a student nurse, on my second degree and I enjoy hiking, an occasional run, snowboarding, appreciating art in whatever form it takes, cooking, music and cinema.

Submissive me is a masochist at heart: nothing pleases me more than feeling a paddle against my bare skin or receiving a good flogging. I am also partial to anal play and will often wear my butt plug to complete everyday tasks. I am of a very open mindset when it comes to trying new play as I feel that you can not truly say something is a hard limit unless you’ve tried it once.

I am happy to send pics privately and chat over KiK. From a visual perspective I am 5’ 8’’, size 14, 36d, dark curly shoulder length hair.

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Spankmehard18
icon-wio Spankmehard18 has updated their profile description
  • 13.01.2019 7:56:58
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
  • Not single
Hi I’m Rae, a bisexual fem sub.

I welcome contact from genuine Doms, Dommes, couples who are seeking a third or fem subs looking for a playmate. No fakes, wannabes or time wasters: I’m getting pretty good at gauging genuineness as I’ve encountered so many ☹️.

Vanilla me is a student nurse, on my Read more… second degree and I enjoy hiking, an occasional run, snowboarding, appreciating art in whatever form it takes, cooking, music and cinema.

Submissive me is a masochist at heart: nothing pleases me more than feeling a paddle against my bare skin or receiving a good flogging. I am also partial to anal play and will often wear my butt plug to complete everyday tasks. I am of a very open mindset when it comes to trying new play as I feel that you can not truly say something is a hard limit unless you’ve tried it once.

I am happy to send pics privately and chat over KiK. From a visual perspective I am 5’ 8’’, size 14, 36d, dark curly shoulder length hair.
Spankmehard18
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  • 12.01.2019 19:45:14
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
  • Not single
  • Spankmehard18
Spankmehard18
icon-wio Spankmehard18 wrote something in the forum
  • 02.01.2019 14:06:19
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
  • Not single
BODY MODS TATTS/PEIRCED ECT

I love tattoos myself and seeing them on others. I have two myself and plan to add to my collection. Being a masochist the actual process of having a tattoo is a massive turn on: my last one I wore a butt plug to add to the fun. Can’t wait till I get my next one next week.

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Spankmehard18
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  • 10.12.2018 20:13:05
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
  • Not single
  • Spankmehard18
Spankmehard18
icon-wio Spankmehard18 has updated their profile description
  • 10.12.2018 19:03:22
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
  • Not single
Hi I’m Rae, a bisexual fem sub.
First and foremost I have a Daddy. I am his but, as he is not always around to meet my submissive needs, he is happy for me to play with others as long as I seek his permission and I provide him with photos of any play I enjoy. I welcome contact from genuine Doms, Read more… Dommes, couples and fem subs. My Daddy would particularly like me to find a Domme.

Vanilla me is a student nurse, on my second degree and I enjoy hiking, an occasional run, snowboarding, appreciating art in whatever form it takes, cooking, music and cinema.

Submissive me is a masochist at heart: nothing pleases me more than feeling a paddle against my bare skin or receiving a good flogging. I am also partial to anal play and will often wear my butt plug to complete everyday tasks. I am of a very open mindset when it comes to trying new play as I feel that you can not truly say something is a hard limit unless you’ve tried it once.

I am happy to send pics privately and chat over KiK. From a visual perspective I am 5’ 8’’, size 14, 36d, dark curly shoulder length hair.
Spankmehard18
icon-wio Spankmehard18 is in a relationship
  • 07.12.2018 11:40:45
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
  • Not single
Spankmehard18
icon-wio Spankmehard18 found their first kinky gift!
  • 06.12.2018 6:21:02
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
  • Not single
Spankmehard18
icon-wio Spankmehard18 wrote something in the forum
  • 02.12.2018 17:22:52
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
  • Not single
Sub Drop

Sub drop sucks but for most it’s one of those downsides to being a sub. Damn excessive natural highs and lows 😂.
I’ve got a sub drop box (well bag): it has some of my favourite films, a lovely soft blanket, a scented candle (my favourite scent), chocolates and something sugary to drink. My first Read more… ever Dom started this tradition for me. As he wasn’t always around when I had drop he used to give me a gift box of treats each time we played and he knew he wouldn’t be around to help comfort me when I dropped. It helped massively at the time and still does.
Big hugs to you x

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Spankmehard18
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  • 30.11.2018 20:59:45
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
  • Not single
I’m in full on lg mode decorating my Christmas tree, knowing that in 24 hours I’ll have some much needed bruises. Can’t think of any better stress relief at the moment 😁
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Spankmehard18
icon-wio Spankmehard18 created a status update
  • 10.11.2018 23:44:00
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
  • Not single
So what’s the best way to get over the most awful subdrop that happens when your Dom ends it with you?
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Spankmehard18
icon-wio Spankmehard18 is single again
  • 10.11.2018 13:57:54
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
  • Not single
Spankmehard18
icon-wio Spankmehard18 wrote something in the forum
  • 04.11.2018 8:42:57
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
  • Not single
The new guy...

Having come out of a 15 year vanilla relationship in June my advice is be as honest as you can if you meet a non kink inclined person.
Like most kink inclined people, kink is an integral part of who I am and not satisfying me in that respect lead to me feeling very empty, amongst other things. I Read more… tried and tried for years to get him into kink with no success, so I’d also say don’t hold your breath thinking you can eventually make someone like kink if they’re not into it. I really don’t know how I managed 15 years to be honest.
It’s obviously easier chatting to kink inclined people to start with if you’re looking for a LTR, so kink sites like this are obviously better. Though like vanilla sites you’ll find non genuine kinksters and wannabes. I’ve had mixed responses from vanillas I’ve chatted to on non kink dating sites: I’m honest from the beginning as I know that I need to be in kink based relationship when I date.

Spankmehard18
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  • 09.10.2018 20:03:23
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
  • Not single
  • Spankmehard18
Spankmehard18
icon-wio Spankmehard18 has updated their profile description
  • 30.09.2018 0:25:22
  • Female (36)
  • Derby
  • Not single
I’m a female sub wanting to explore my sexuality after many years away from the BDSM world.

Vanilla me is a student nurse, on my second degree and I enjoy hiking, an occasional run, snowboarding, appreciating art in whatever form it takes, cooking, music and cinema.

Submissive me is a masochist Read more… at heart: nothing pleases me more than feeling a paddle against my bare skin or receiving a good flogging. I am also partial to anal play and will often wear my butt plug to complete everyday tasks. I am of a very open mindset when it comes to trying new play as I feel that you can not truly say something is a hard limit unless you’ve tried it once.

Genuine kinksters only please. No one who can talk the talk but not walk the walk as Dom/subs should. I am happy to interact with genuine Dom(mes) searching a sub, couples looking for a third or sub or female subs who would like a playmate.

I am happy to send pics privately and chat over KiK. From a visual perspective I am 5’ 8’’, size 14, 36d, dark curly shoulder length hair.