I had a four year relationship introduce the lifestyle and when that ended I dropped the majority of kink. After having multiple all vanilla relationships not work out I realized I needed to include kink in my next relationship. After talking with new friends and a few people with potential I realized I wanted to be more upfront with what my kinky side is.

I am a submissive masochist into bondage, exhibitionism and being a brat. I believe I need to live the lifestyle 24/7. I like belonging to someone, I need to be given a schedule and punishment/consequences for chores that I put off and a weird aversion to brushing my teeth that I can’t wrap my head around. I go pretty deep into subspace and need a lot of aftercare. I love cuddling and kissing.

I’m looking for someone who can offer me all that and still be a boyfriend/future husband. Someone who is my best friend and I can take home to my parents. I need there to be vanilla aspects in the relationship as well.

I am not looking for a daddy, I’m looking for someone my age up to 7 years older. Ultimately I’m looking to marry and have kids within the next few years (hopefully by 30-32). I’m currently looking at houses in the areas surrounding Waterbury. I will not relocate, I’ve already done that enough and I’m ready to settle down.

I enjoy having threesomes involving another woman and am interested in involving more people. I really like the idea of a damsel in distress situation. That was something I used to have dreams about when I was younger, they always included bondage, and it all clicked and made sense after the introduction to kink lol

Desires and Fantasies
Into: bare handed spanking (receiving), being a brat to get punished, being called a good girl (receiving), biting (everything to do with it), bondage (receiving), breast/nipple play (receiving), breasts (everything to do with it), breath play (receiving), bruises (receiving), butt plugs (receiving), chocolate (everything to do with it), clit spanking (receiving), cuddles (everything to do with it), d/s (receiving), dildos (everything to do with it), double penetration (receiving), edge play (receiving), exhibitionism (receiving), face fucking (receiving), fingering (receiving), flogging (receiving), glass dildos (receiving), hair pulling (receiving), hairbrush spanking (receiving), handcuffs (receiving), impact play, kissing (everything to do with it), kneeling, massages (everything to do with it), masturbation (everything to do with it), mental bondage (receiving), multiple orgasms (receiving), nudity (everything to do with it), ordered to masturbate (receiving), orgasm control (receiving), paddling (receiving), pain, photography, restraints (receiving), rough sex (everything to do with it), scratching (everything to do with it), snuggling (everything to do with it), squirting (receiving), subspace (receiving), talking dirty (everything to do with it), tattoos (everything to do with it), tearing off clothing (everything to do with it), teasing, threesomes (everything to do with it), tit fucking (receiving), tit slapping (receiving), vibrators (everything to do with it), whips (receiving).