Personal details

Gender Man
Age 55
Status Single
Height 171cm
Weight 80kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Short
Beard Full beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Body hair Some hair
Dick length 15cm
Dick width 5cm
Circumcised No
Zodiac sign Aquarius
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

Interested in:

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Description

Hi, I am fairly new to the scene but i do have some experience as a sub. I’d like to chat with people of all types, make some friends and learn more about the scene and how I fit in it. I am very open minded and eager to please. I’m keen to learn and would like to establish some chemistry with someone. I would also be interested in going to a fetish club.

Limits

SCAT, BLOOD, PHYSICAL DAMAGE, ANYTHING ILLEGAL.

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  • 24.03.2024 8:09:23
  • Male (55)
  • Chelmsford
  • Single
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  • 30.10.2023 0:50:28
  • Male (55)
  • Chelmsford
  • Single

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Dominant

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  • 29.10.2023 13:01:52
  • Male (55)
  • Chelmsford
  • Single
Hi, I am fairly new to the scene but i do have some experience as a sub. I’d like to chat with people of all types, make some friends and learn more about the scene and how I fit in it. I am very open minded and eager to please. I’m keen to learn and would like to establish some chemistry with Read more… someone. I would also be interested in going to a fetish club.
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  • 29.10.2023 13:01:52
  • Male (55)
  • Chelmsford
  • Single
SCAT, BLOOD, PHYSICAL DAMAGE, ANYTHING ILLEGAL.
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  • 27.10.2023 13:17:23
  • Male (55)
  • Chelmsford
  • Single
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  • 22.10.2023 15:38:41
  • Male (55)
  • Chelmsford
  • Single
Culkolding

There are many different levels and types of cuckolding and I won’t go into them, but I believe If it is done correctly it can be incredible. There has to be an extremely strong bond and level of understanding between the couple though. From the man point of view ultimately he has to love his Read more… partner so much that he supports her choice to have sex with other people.

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  • 22.10.2023 15:22:33
  • Male (55)
  • Chelmsford
  • Single
Masculine chastity subs?

I have previously been in a FLR and was in chastity for a year. My Dom didn’t want me to be a sissy or trans. She just wanted me to be the person I was previously (before chastity) but with her having control over my orgasms and leverage for her to get her way. It was my idea too, so I think she Read more… respected that I wanted to be a better me, which ultimately worked really well. I was more respectful, we never argued and we connected sexually 10x more than we did before.
I think there is definitely demand for a male like you, but i think there are a lot of women who are not aware of the benefits. Good luck👍

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  • 21.10.2023 13:17:46
  • Male (55)
  • Chelmsford
  • Single
My earliest recollection of having a fetish was around 7 years old. I was obsessed with girls bums and wanted them to sit on me. I was also drawn to witches which I saw as strong sadistic ladies. Anyone else have similar recollections that young?
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  • 11.10.2023 21:19:47
  • Male (55)
  • Chelmsford
  • Single

43%
Dominant

55%
Submissive

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  • 07.10.2023 12:43:46
  • Male (55)
  • Chelmsford
  • Single
Dom / vanilla relationship help needed 👋🏻

Life’s too short. Both of you need to be happy

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  • 05.10.2023 12:42:52
  • Male (55)
  • Chelmsford
  • Single
Chef by trade, i fantasise about going to a Dom’s home to prepare and serve a banquet for her and all of her guests. I would do my best to make it a great meal and would of course be held accountable for not meeting everyone’s expectations. 😬
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  • 04.10.2023 20:04:10
  • Male (55)
  • Chelmsford
  • Single
What drives a sub?

I think it’s the bond and connection that drives any relationship, but when a Dom and a sub have that kind of connection, it’s mind blowing. Testing limits and finding out more and more about each other. She knows what triggers you and you literally are like putty in her hands. The feeling of Read more… utter love as you submit and obey her every command, but also the support that both Dom and and Sub provide to each other.

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  • 03.10.2023 18:56:22
  • Male (55)
  • Chelmsford
  • Single
Training a Male sub to control orgasms

I taught my self a long time ago to delay ejaculation. I just tensed my prostate (before ejaculation) as hard as I could and a small ruined orgasm happened. I was always eager to please so this worked well since I lost no desire and could carry on with no effect to my erection. I found when in Read more… chastity that with such a large amount of sperm, the premature ejaculation was even harder to prevent and in most devices a slave could still cum. You’ll have to keep an eye on him🤞

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  • 03.10.2023 18:28:54
  • Male (55)
  • Chelmsford
  • Single
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  • 03.10.2023 18:25:12
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