Hi everyone. Classy, professional SWM in Charlotte, looking for a happy, healthy, single lady to build a sincere friendship that will hopefully lead to a loving, monogamous relationship. I am NOT interested in any kind of cyber/online relationship or any kind of long distance relationship. I am absolutely NOT interested in any kind of "paid professional services". I am only interested in a traditional, loving, monogamous relationship sprinkled with lovely D&S elements. Sexual chemistry is nice to have, but shared common vanilla interests can build the foundation for a lasting relationship. Perhaps you will turn me on to new vanilla interests? Below are some but not all of my vanilla interests:
Fun Dates: Charlotte has a LOT to do. Sometimes I like to research fun and exciting activities for us to go do together. I think you will be pleasantly surprised!
Finally, not interested in men, m/f couples, or any kind of trans-people. Thanks.
If you are strictly submissive and you are unable to play the Dominant role, please pass me by! Technically, I'm a switch, but if given a choice, most of the time I would much rather play the submissive role. SSC (safe, sane, consensual) play is a requirement. Safe words and hard limits must be respected. I'm a play toy sub, not a service sub. I have no interest in scrubbing your toilets or mowing your lawn. It's not all about you. It's a shared experience. Listening to my desires and fantasies should be very high on your list and in return, I promise to serve you in my own special ways. I am a resistant submissive. I am a constant challenge, and will put up mild resistance! That means you need to know how to Dominate your man with serious authority and will-power. Physical strength not required. Instead, you should know how to leverage your powerful mind-fuck psychology to Dominate and control me. You should enjoy sexual humiliating your man using forced feminization and torturing your man with long, extended tease and denial sessions (strict orgasm control).
I got addicted to doing this alone by myself. What I learned is, if you do it a LOT, (like every day or every other day), you will get to the point where even if you pee, you will still feel like your bladder is 'full' with no way to relieve yourself.
In my case the 'full sensation' Read more… eventually subsided, but it took about 3 days and was scary as hell.
My best advice . . . save "hold it play' for rare play sessions. Like once every 4-8 weeks and never hold it long enough to cause yourself physical pain.
On a more positive note, if you are a submissive guy and your Dom wants you to 'hold it' for them during a session, it can really confuse your penis if your Dom is trying to arouse you! Very bizarre, but play indeed.