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I've found in our dom/brat relationship the more open and honest you are about serial preferences etc the better the experiences/role plays can be. Without having discussions your dom wouldn't know what your soft/hard limits are or how far to go ie funishments/punishments you enjoy or dislike ie Read more… some like bondage such as rope play but wouldn't go so far as collar, cuffs etc.
My dom likes to give rules/boundaries and whilst I never outrightly try or break them I do like to skirt the edge or try to push them. I get off on the thrill of trying to outwit mr whilst he can overpower me. I love the push back so positions where he can tease but delay my gratification work Read more… really well. Kneeling is especially a good one xT
After taking a bdsm test me and my Mr tried to unpick our limits....kind of like a bucket list of things we've tried throughout our lives (Inc before and whilst together) and then working out what hard and soft limits we have.....ie spanking but then breaking it down further Ie with hand, paddle, Read more… whip, nine tails. Then do same for say restraints....ie handcuffs, rope, cable ties....hands in front or behind back etc. Literally talk about everything before, during and after. If easier welcome to message us regarding specific questions and will try to help as much as poss xxxT
Thanks everyone for the input! Any further input is appreciated. As we are new to the d/s relationship im trying not to push too hard on the sub as im not wanting her to run to the hills and say this isnt for her. We were doing scene only but have decided to do 24/7 for a trail to see how things go Read more… i we have gone through a list of do's and donts so we are clear about hard and soft limits and also the things she would like to happen.
She is what you would say a bratty sub.... any input on that subject would also be appreciated.