I'd say my level of experience with BDSM is intermediate. My interest lies in the mental side of bondage; restraint; orgasm control and sensory deprivation, etc, but I am prepared to indulge in the S & M aspect if the situation calls for it.
I think it's the idea of someone being under my control and enjoying it that really turns me on the most, and that they crave that control.
I'm not on this site to look for one night stands, to be honest. I'm receptive to the idea (there aren't many men that wouldn't be) but I'd much prefer to find someone looking for something more long term.
I'm kinky mainly in the bedroom but like the idea of certain aspects of my sex life spilling over into real life within reason. Otherwise I just want to find that special person like everyone else wants to find and have the normal life that that entails but with added kinkiness.
I'd like to meet someone who is intelligent, articulate and funny. I like nothing better than to just talk the night away with someone, preferably in a pub. What happens in the bedroom afterwards, however...
Being the sub. I am full Dom
I love the idea of the sub being in a constant state of arousal. They want to cum so hard and so badly that they will do anything to get it. I am more than happy to provide that service. Blindfolded, nipples clamped, ass plugged, pussy vibed, I attach the leash to your collar and lead you on all fours to the bedroom.... The rest will depend on you...