I have no morals, yet I'm a very moral person.
I'm a Dom guy who's been in the scene a long time, including working for a few adult sites as a Dom including Shadow Slaves and the Pain Files. I'm into a lot of stuff, friendly, discrete and looking to meet new people. I have been known to Switch in the past, but not for a long time now. Personality and desires are fluid, no one is the same around everyone and I am not arrogant enough to assume I will always feel in control, but I think its likely.
Please don't use lines like "I'm horny and can't cum" or "hello master" as opening gambits in conversation. I like to chat to folks get to know them find out if there is a connection. I am very good at what I do, Im in my 40's not some horned up teenager.
Desires and Fantasies
This is a tough one isnt it. Ive always found my desires and fantasies change from partner to partner and I love exploring them all.
What Im looking for is someone I can make a connection with, I mean even bad play is still fun but good play is mind blowing and that needs a connection.
I have encountered similar beliefs in the past (generally from people I quickly realized I have no desire to be friends with), then again I once met someone who thinks planes leave chem trails to increase the cloud cover to we cant see the aliens controlling our weather. People can believe what Read more… they like and we are free to point at them and laugh at them for being total wankpuffins.
I kinda want to echo what the others are saying. I mean there is a world of difference between wanting to be pushed past your comfort zone and being forced past your comfort zone. People talk a lot about consent in the scene but consent thats not enthusiastically given isnt really conscent, and Read more… conscent through coercion or blackmail....thats abuse.
Get your body beat - Combichrist