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The Road Less Travelled — Are You Curious?
Let's be honest — the vanilla world has its charms, but some of us are wired a little differently.
Here's what I've learned: Dominance isn't domineerng. Submission isn't servitude. The real dynamic lives somewhere far more interesting — in trust built slowly, respect earned mutually, and energy that moves between two people, not just in one direction. That spark either exists or it doesn't. You can't manufacture it and you shouldn't have to.
I'm not hunting for a body. I'm looking for a mind — one that's curious, self-aware, and genuinely interested in what happens when two people stop performing and start connecting. Will we finish each other's sentences? Will my hug be the one, when you need one?
I've explored rope work and Shibari (any rope bunnies reading this? 👀), and various other forms of play I'm happy to unpack over a conversation — not a monologue, a conversation.
If you're bringing: SSC and RACK awareness, safe word fluency, some spiritual curiosity, an appreciation for energy and sensation, and genuine enthusiasm for the journey over the destination — we should talk.
Hard limits — nothing illegal, nothing with lasting damage (physically and mrntally) and public scenes that impose on unsuspecting bystanders aren't my thing. Discretion in public though? That's a different kind of fun entirely. 😏
This isn't a transaction. It's an exploration — mental, physical, maybe even spiritual. The endorphin rush is real, the surrender can be profound, and the right connection turns the whole thing into something neither of us fully predicted.
Intrigued? Start with hello.
Limits
Something to discuss.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
Wanna know what interests me?:
- Erotic Photography
- Anal Hook
- Anal Play
- Anal Sex
- Anal Beads
- Anal Plugs
- Inflatable Gag
- Blindfolds
- Ball Gag
- Ben Wa Balls
- Bondage
- Bondage Shackles
- Bondage Cuffs
- Bondage Hood
- Bondage Rope
- Breast Play
- Collar & Leash
- Cunnilingus
- Deep Throating
- Dildos
- Double Penetration
- Threesomes
- Edgeplay
- Edging
- Electro Sex Stimulation
- Erotic Art
- Erotica
- Facesitting
- Restraints
- Fingering
- Fisting
- Floggers
- Foreplay
- Gags
- Handcuffs
- Handjobs
- Rough Sex
- Jennings Gag
- Kamasutra
- Kinky Sex
- Enema
- Clitoral Pump
- Massage
- Multiple Orgasms
- Muzzle Gag
- Nipple Clamps
- Nipple Play
- Nipples
- Nudism
- Oral Sex
- Orgasm Control
- Spanking Paddles
- Predicament Bondage
- Rimming
- Ring Gag
- Sensory Deprivation
- Sex on the Beach
- Outdoor Sex
- Sex in the Water
- Shower Sex
- Sex Machine
- Younger Sex Partners
- Older Sex Partners
- Sex Toys
- Sex Swing
- Spreader Bar
- Squirting
- Suspension Bondage
- Sybian
- Tantric Massage
- Tantric Sex
- Love Egg
- Vibrators
- Wax Play
- Wet Look Clothing
- Whips
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Tantra and Pranic are both about energy flow, but have different results.
Depends on the sub, her experience, mental state, your techniques, etc.
I have managed to make a sub cum once and not able to take anymore (lots of orgasm control and denial), to having multiple orgasms leaving the sub high on endorphins - lots of aftrr care may be needed - especially if the sub Read more… has a sub drop when have withdrawal symptoms as she recovers from the come down.
I too am a male, retired NLP Practioner and life coach, tantric masseuse and Pranic Healer.
I have worked with a 3 female university students who were stressed with studies
Yoni massage amongst other techniques like breathing and relaxing exercises help these student get through the universe days Read more… easier.
As regards steaming, there is those that do it as part of their culture, doing it fir generations safely, and have a particular stool to sit on. Apparently does wonders and tightens up bits. Not something explored yet - waiting a willing candidate 😁
In summary
1. Loved the feel of hemp rope, not leather, etc just pure hemp rope on her skin
2. Loved the patterns it left on the skin
3. Physically at someone else's mercy, ***, nerves, andeliane, exposed, etc
4. Mentally loved the Read more…thought planted that she cannot escape, not in control - ***d to let go (of everything for a short period) - mental release
5. Zoned out (trance like state - not able to tell you what happened, but it felt good) - able to focus on sensations rather than what is happening
6. The release - tension, stress, reset until the next time. Bit addictive 😂
Never been restrained, I do the rope work so have no idea of the effects other than the enjoyment of producing creative ties. I would like to hear from those who have a deeper connection with restraints and it's effects on you.
Let's be honest — the vanilla world has its charms, but some of us are wired a little differently.
Here's what I've learned: Dominance isn't domineerng. Submission isn't servitude. The real dynamic lives somewhere far more interesting — in trust built Read more… slowly, respect earned mutually, and energy that moves between two people, not just in one direction. That spark either exists or it doesn't. You can't manufacture it and you shouldn't have to.
I'm not hunting for a body. I'm looking for a mind — one that's curious, self-aware, and genuinely interested in what happens when two people stop performing and start connecting. Will we finish each other's sentences? Will my hug be the one, when you need one?
I've explored rope work and Shibari (any rope bunnies reading this? 👀), and various other forms of play I'm happy to unpack over a conversation — not a monologue, a conversation.
If you're bringing: SSC and RACK awareness, safe word fluency, some spiritual curiosity, an appreciation for energy and sensation, and genuine enthusiasm for the journey over the destination — we should talk.
Hard limits — nothing illegal, nothing with lasting damage (physically and mrntally) and public scenes that impose on unsuspecting bystanders aren't my thing. Discretion in public though? That's a different kind of fun entirely. 😏
This isn't a transaction. It's an exploration — mental, physical, maybe even spiritual. The endorphin rush is real, the surrender can be profound, and the right connection turns the whole thing into something neither of us fully predicted.
Intrigued? Start with hello.
Want find out more DM me.
:1785840654,6855750, My view is that, even in D/S dynamics - the sub is actually in control if they are letting you dominate. Talk about consent beforehand, and what the boundaries are - which are firm, and which can be bent. They have safe words etc. So I would recommend find Read more… a sub you can explore it with, and learn from them and their experience. You’ll find elements you lean in to, and aspects that you don’t. Then you’ll find a dom style that feels natural to you. This is how it played out for me
Totally agree. On reflection one further point stop worrying about - start exploring, experimenting and letting your Dom personality flourish in and out brdroom
She described the experience as one full of surprises, when she forgets they are there and a movement she makes or something else makes the balls move (like vibration and bumps on the bus ride she Read more…described) creates some internal sensations.
Her words "when got home was gagging for it" for those not familiar with phrase "gagging" it is nothing to do with the throat - it loosely translate to '"f**king horny" "climbing walls horny" etc.
Anyone else tried Kegel balls? Good experience / Bad experience?
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It's not about using them for pelvic exercises but wearing them out on occasions. I know of others who use some insert and have no damage or inflexible muscles.
Further more for you to tighten and develop inflexible muscles you will have to go on an intensive use of kegel balls - like working out at the gym to build muscles - if that's what you need don't use kegel balls - I will agree with you on that.
:1785834802,5411805, Most dominant persons i know IRL are total subs in bed
Interesting - apart an experience of what it is like to be a sub, I have no inclining to be a sub in bed or else where, I have dominant personality and a Alpha Read more… male military background.
Not disputing your statement I am sure there are some - maybe some from group describe above.
It also maybe the group you associate with has a high number of Doms with some sub tendencies.
Learn to accept that you have certain needs to make you be you and you are enough as you are.
There is nothing wrong with having to be in control when you need to be - at work, looking after a household (hope others help), what day the bins need to go out, etc. and what ever else you feel need to Read more… be in control of. This is not different from others. Others find some balance - is this something you still trying to figure out or is there something deeper?
There is also nothing wrong with letting go and being submissive. Is it a holiday from being in control or something else? - no harm there if it is.
There are lots of people who have to be in control constantly and seek a release by not being in control at certain times, (example not involved in planning *** and friends activities and are told where to be and when) or there are those that need something more - they can then look to the submissive side, where they give total control to others or there are those that hire the services of someone who will dominate them, and play with them satisfying that itch - consenting adult activities
The other times when you just want to let go and submit - release from control / urge to submit / urge to please (whatever the feeling is) - is this a need / an itch that has to be scratched? If so then satisfy it, do not suppress this. This may be a challenge (a lot of things to let go of, adjust to, things to accept (like your needs / itches), etc., but if you do overcome this what an amazing life you will have - if you really struggling then get a therapist who can help you change what is going on in your head and help you reprogram the world around you. Do it now don't leave it until you are older - break the pattern and start enjoying your life and celebrating who you are - accepting you are enough as you are or become.
I was once an NLP Practioner and used it in training mangers - have you tried NLP or something similar? It can help reprogram your thought processing and change the way you see, feel, or hear the world.
Change the way you, see, feel, or hear the world, the world around you will change - trust me on this one.
Hope that helps
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The people whom i’ve played with also commented on the release as the *** continued to flow freely as each bind was unwound.
I too would love to hear more from those Bunny’s out there Having never been fully restrained and only bound by myself, i can see how people enjoy the tension and the odd pinch. Being unable to move the limbs made me relax further into the bind.
The people whom i’ve played with also commented on the release as the *** continued to flow freely as each bind was unwound.
I too would love to hear more from those Bunny’s out there