This is not my first time on this site and my first forays into the world have not been spectacularly successful. However, in an effort to turn that frown upside-down, my past experiences have distilled in me exactly what I want and need. While I had given up on dd/lg for a short time, other recent relationships have been even more unsatisfying and the conclusion I’ve come to is that the only way for me to find happiness in this cold and unforgiving world is to find a little that I can protect and nurture, to love and care for. I wish to be her confidant and teacher and guide her through the scary and bewildering parts of life.

I believe that such a relationship must be based on respect, which in turn inspires love and trust. It may be a particular view that appears to conflict with other daddy’s and little’s views that I’ve encountered, but I genuinely believe that a little should be the whole world to her daddy and him, her whole world. They must come first in each others lives otherwise the dynamic will inevitably fail. Now, that isn’t to say I demand complete monogamy, just fidelity and honesty.

I would like to spoil my little with cuddles and kisses and sometimes she will be able to wrap me around her little finger and so would say I'm much more of a kisses and cuddles type of daddy, not particularly into the more physical aspects of BDSM. With that said, I can also be a firm daddy and will punish unacceptable behaviour.

On another note, I am a rather private person and have rarely dared to enter the ‘community’ here. That said, perhaps the right person will grant me the confidence to do so and I am ever willing to try new experiences. I do have photos, but also keep them private.

And so, I am looking for for something long lasting and fulfilling and have absolutely no need to jump head first into the first thing that comes along. The dd/lg dynamic is something I take very seriously and once I enter a relationship, it usually consumes my whole emotional being. For this reason, I need to be fully certain that it is what we both want.

So if you think we could connect and don't mind a daddy that is keen to take things slowly, get in touch