I am a dominant but not a power hungry jerk submission is so much more then just sex or being in control its a bond between two people its a bond bewteen a master and his girl just cause someone is a submissive it does not mean they must call your sir or you are entitled to command them to call you sir nor does it mean you can just demand sex or other thing should someone call you sir its a sign of respect of a high form! There is so much more to being a master then some would imagine.