I have been married to the same woman for many years and intend to keep her, but I need another lover, one who enjoys being bound and made to cum repeatedly, but only when I allow it, because anticipation makes it so much sweeter. There are other items on my agenda that we can discuss later. Would prefer a 24/7 live-in situation, because it's safer, allows deep relationships, etc, but would consider a casual relationship with the right individual.

Desires and Fantasies
Many, too numerous to list, I'd never remember them all. What I'm not into is beatings, whippings, canings, tho a little OTK spanking is always lovely, especially if it's an ample bottom. No kids, animals, pee or poop, probably some other things I can't think of. My thing is control, gentle domination.