Come into my parlour said the spider to the fly.
Well hello there, good to see you ;-)
Come sit down with me on the sofa, have some tea, and tell me all about yourself.
Messaging: One line won't get you very far: read my profile, put some effort in and dazzle me with your charms- go on, you can do it! Velvet.
Great question! Anything which turns my stomach is a limit. It's a safety issue- drowning you in vomit might cause 25 to life. ;-)