To put it simple I am what is known as a somnophiliac. This is where I find it really erotic for my partner to enter a sleeping state and I dominate them. (Consesually of corse).
I initially thought I was a sub at a young age and have always enjoyed watching my partner sleep. Years passed and Read more… eventually made the transition from sub to switch... to then Dom.
This kink then spurred from that.