Ah, well. This is new to me. I'm kind of tired of being judged for my kinks or having them dismissed and unimportant in my relationships. I'm not really sure what I'm looking for. Hopefully, I'll know it when I see it.
My biggest fantasy is being tied, blindfolded and handled by more than one guy. It's not fancy or anything, but I love the idea of giving complete control to "my men".