Although my sexuality is fluid, I'm much closer to the sadist end of the spectrum than to the masochist. However, both masochistic and sadistic women excite me - though obviously in different ways. Similarly, I'm a mostly straight male. I'm excited by extreme porn of most kinds. I very much enjoy chatting/exchanging messages about sex and kink. I also enjoy the more extreme kinds of erotica if they're written well. I'm excited by sexually cruel women and would like to exchange fantasies about teasing and torturing a female slave.