About me
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- LTR (relationship)
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Description
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I’m devon. Out of Cranston. I am a middle. I am a sub-leaning switch. I prefer submitting versus dominance.
I'm looking for someone to take me under their wing and allow me to serve them. I enjoy serving hand and foot as a service sub. I would make a good butler and manservant.
I’m looking for friends, and people to talk to on a regular basis. I’m looking for someone to talk to about their knowledge of alternate practices.
I only submit under people who gain my trust. I’m not sure what to put here. Open to any question and there’s no such thing as a stupid question. Open and interested in all sorts of things, really.
I spend a significant amount of time alone. this is typically due to not knowing how to approach people and/or where to do so. my friends are somewhat limited.
I tend to submit only to woman (or a guy if I trust them enough) and only in very specific ways. One thing I’m into is a very specific stress position. It’s a controlled submission but not painful and not uncomfortable. Takes trust. In that position, I could break something if not careful. I'll teach it to you.
I’m a crow furry. I’m not active in the fur community, anymore. I like crows. I’m not a fur-suiter. I don’t draw. I wrote occasionally. I like birds.
I am a through and through cuddle slut. Cuddling and touch is sacred. As important as religious worship or prayer. It’s a ritual that brings such pleasure. When I am touched or have my back rubbed/massaged, my brain turns off. Just off. Then I’m pretty much yours. But you can’t stop touching, otherwise it breaks the spell, so to speak.
I am adventurous and always hungry for a new experience (see hard/soft limits). I am intelligent and able to talk about scientific and mathematics principles.
I am an amateur photographer. I am always looking for new opportunities to take pictures of new things. I have a hungry and curious mind. I crave knowledge.
I will be your friend. I will be, within reason, whatever you need me to be. I will be your servant to run errands for you and only for you tell me thank you and smile at me. I want to be loved and appreciated.
If you want to know more, ask. I don’t bite. But you might...
Desires and Fantasies
I’d like to try sensory deprivation, confinement. Binding.
Limits
No pain! no pee. no scat. no messing with the eyes or teeth. no blood. abdl otherwise, ask. I reserve the right to revoke permission at any time. consent is king.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- 24/7
- Age Play
- Accent Fetish
- Anal Sex
- Androgyny
- Anonymous Sex
- Aquaphilia
- Blindfolds
- BDSM
- Biting Fetish
- Bisexual (Active)
- Breast Fetish
- Glasses Fetish
- Butts
- Caregiver / little
- Collar & Leash
- Cosplay
- Crossdresser
- Cuddling
- Deep Throating
- Dendrophilia
- Dirty Talk
- Discipline
- Female Domination
- Female Ejaculation
- Fingering
- Fleshlight
- Yiffing
- Futanari
- Goth
- Hair Pulling
- Rough Sex
- Hentai / Anime
- Heterosexual (Active)
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Costumes (Active)
- Lap Dance
- Masks (Active)
- Massage
- Multiple Orgasms
- Pansexual
- Piercings
- Porn
- Quickies
- Robot Fetishism
- Role Play
- Sapiosexual
- Scratching
- Sensory Deprivation
- Sex on the Beach
- Washing Machine Sex
- Car Sex (Active)
- Elevator Sex
- Outdoor Sex
- Sex at the Movies
- Swimming Pool Sex
- Sex in the Water
- Sex In Bed
- Shower Sex
- Younger Sex Partners
- Older Sex Partners
- Sex Toys
- Freckle Fetish
- Spreader Bar
- Squirting
- Steampunk
- Striptease
- Submission
- Tantric Massage
- Tattoo Fetish
- Subservience
- Vanilla
- Voyeurism
- Xenophilia
- Straitjackets
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I like the anime oreimo.
I think the biggest thing for me is that I want to be loved. I want to be cherished. So I put all of myself out there and do things that I would probably not be comfortable with. Just so I can be loved.
Thanks to everyone for your input
Thank you very much. I appreciate your feedback.
Fair enough. ➦StartleBird quote earthyangel:❝that what I thought. well.. for you to know, that won't make others like you more. that will just cause some unworthy people to abuse you. maybe you should invest some time in learning to love and cherish yourself first. when you will value yourself more, you will pull proper people that fit your energy. its quite simple. the self work isn't easy, yet if you don't love yourself, no one will. ❞
Fair enough.
that what I thought. well.. for you to know, that won't make Read more… others like you more. that will just cause some unworthy people to abuse you. maybe you should invest some time in learning to love and cherish yourself first. when you will value yourself more, you will pull proper people that fit your energy. its quite simple. the self work isn't easy, yet if you don't love yourself, no one will.
if you are traumatized, I think you need to give yourself the right space and time for figure out yourself. I would consider treatment. I was wondering what is the basic need Read more… that you have that cause you do things the way you do. is it the need to be loved? is it something else?
I learned that I was a giver and pleaser not only in the lifestyle just because I was afraid that no one will love me if I will stand for my own needs. just when I started to put limits to people, I learned that I don't really care now if people love me or not. I hope they will, yet if they don't.. so be it.
don't do things that you fear of. dot. you need to be able to talk about such things with the person that dominate you. communication is a basic thing. if you fear something, you can "work" around it.. together. if its in your hard limits because you were injured, just don't. someone that care about you, would not damage you.
it is challenging thing to over come fear. sometimes it takes baby steps. if you cannot communicate it with your partner, love yourself and go for a treatment.❞
I think the biggest thing for me is that I want to be loved. I want to be cherished. So I put all of myself out there and do things that I would probably not be comfortable with. Just so I can be loved.
A mother figure or an older sister figure or an older brother figure to love and care for me
If a dom would say to me that they know what's good for me, that's terrifying.
If a dom says to me to do something, and I do Read more… not wish to comply for whatever reason, I would find it difficult to advocate for my boundaries, wants, needs, etc. fear, mostly, is what governs my actions. Fear of the response I may receive. And yet, tonight, I left a partner who was unable or unwilling to meet needs that to me are absolutely necessary. Namely, physical touch and quality time.
I was congratulated by a close personal friend for my courage while at the same time, I feel strange. It is unlike me to advocate for myself. I wonder where it will lead.
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