Protocols

[Sp****]

What high protocol ideas are there to implement in a slave master dynamic with an older lady ( 16years older than me ) ?

And what kinds of protocols you know ?

[Ro****]

High protocol is de facto a specific discipline originating from D/s. But, in fact, every part of "high protocol" can be implemented in a M/s.

[Deleted Member]

Would I be correct in assuming you don’t have much experience with high protocol? It can be as simple as the submissive is not to speak unless given permission by the Dominant, acting as a footstool. High protocol meals, where the submissive prepares a 3 course meal and serves it wordlessly and only eats once the Dominant has finished or permits it. There are the submissive poses that can be brought in with high protocol. Your only boundaries are each person’s limits and your imagination. The suggestions above will feel tame to some people and too much for others, so you kinda need to do it yourself. If this is a request from the sub, you could start by having her write a complete list of her high protocol experiences, choosing the paper, pen and even size of spaces yourself.

[ey****]

there's a lot of good articles on high protocol on the wider web - the protocols in your relationship should be relevant to your relationship - and it doesn't really matter if someone is older or younger, if it's M/s or D/s, or if it's ongoing or only certain times.

While it can be applicable to your relationship - if I was attending an event listed as high protocol I would expect rules such as

- Stricter dress code for subs (which could include en***d nudity, collars, masks, etc.)

- no subs to sit on furniture

- subs to speak only when spoken to and/or having to ask permission via their Dominant to speak to someone they didn't know

- subs restricted on eye contact

- subs in service to their Dominant, and potentially others, throughout the event

- food prioritised for the Dominants

- no alcohol for submissives

- other rules within their dynamic to be followed

Privately there can be other rules, potentially Dominant selecting clothes for the sub, strict routines, setting food for the sub to eat, having to ask permission to watch TV programmes, or play games etc 

An important thing is that high protocol can be hard work for the Dominant as well as the submissive, so protocols should be agreed together, but set by the Dominant, not the sub - because anything the sub sets is asking more work of the Dominant.

[my****]

I like protocol. I love poses. Slave pose, inspection pose, presentation, ect. Each pose has a command the girl then gets into the pose and all of her body parts are to be where they’re supposed to be. If they’re not she is corrected.