Prostate play/ and full erection

[cu****]

I would like to know if anyone has any insight on how to maintain a full erection while having your prostate stimulated,

[cu****]

So does the prostate stimulating just add to the release ?

[no****]

Regarding your question, the insight I can provide is follow-up questions: who was doing the massage? How was it being done? Was the mood set to it? Was it your first experience? And so many more. It is not only physical.

[Ro****]

I played so many times stimulating my prostate and never had a problem with my erection 🤷🏻‍♂️ It turns my cock way more sensitive and makes me cum real fast if I masturbate it

[Lu****]

I have to work hard (excuse the pun…) at getting an erection - and then it’s not as full and hard as it can be.

I need lots of other stimulation (cock and dirty thoughts / mind) to get it going. Prostate massage alone won’t do it for me.

[Deleted Member]

Could try a cock ring

[Ni****]

Always makes me twice as hard

[Ko****]

Just so you know, this is pretty normal. Physiologically, your erection is at least likely to soften with direct prostate stimulation and probably go altogether. Sometimes it can be maintained by cock stimulation and you can have both. But I guess not for everyone.

[Ko****]

Also should have mentioned, the *** vessels that maintain your erection pass just under your perineum. If you’re putting pressure (externally or internally) on those, those, that prostate stimulation often involves, this is the reason why you’re likely to lose or weaken your erection. There are techniques specifically designed to prevent a man from getting an erection by having him sit on a rolled up towel or similar.

[cu****]

We should leave shame and judgement out of this conversation, trust me it is easy to keep it to yourself!!!!

[cu****]

Also does the community have a preference to penetrative or oral in regards to beginner prostate play and stimulation

[Deleted Member]

I haven’t really had an issue, but you can always use a cock ring to help keep your cock erect

[Ch****]

I feel like it more a turn on and gets me harder. As long as she knows that’s she’s doing.

[Bi****]

If you can’t maintain an erection while it happens, you’re probably not fully into it

[Je****]

Pumping your arse gives you the erection

[br****]

So as someone who has been with multiple cis men into prostate men in sex and kink play, more have had trouble erections than haven’t. Cock rings and either being jacked off or given oral helped the guys I was in a relationship with be or get hard with prostate stimulation. Another just could not and would orgasm from it soft or use it as foreplay.

[Luvecole]

Try edging a bunch before you do it. If you don't know what edging is hahah look it up

[Largos]

I'm trying hard not to cum when i see a hot lady playing with my ass talking dirty to me. Lots and lots of spit does the work for me. Even after I cum, I get hard almost instantly 

[10****]

Prostate massage should lead to a very strong erection, just need plenty of lube when entering so you don't activate the sphincter and make the anus push outwards. Slowly but surley entry, and then massage the prostate with 1 finger sliding across it (not rubbing the prostate) but rather sliding across it gently