Deleted Member Posted May 29, 2025 Hi! I was wondering, if people decide to hook up and neither of them have a place where they would be able to go, what would they do? I feel like hotels, especially around my area, wouldn’t be a super sustainable option to get every time you wanna do something.
Ve**** Posted May 29, 2025 I can't host cause of my living situation but I've recommended using a car with one who also couldn't host but it never panned out
Heartbreak22 Posted May 29, 2025 Obv stay safe, and hotels are best... Outdoors if that is something you're both into 🤷♀️
ey**** Posted May 29, 2025 I think even if either or both of you do have a space - it can be a case of whether to invite someone into it anyway. But, some options Hotels/AirBnbs/Day Rooms - I get what you're saying about not being sustainable - but if it helps both parties should be chipping in. Day rooms often tend to be cheaper than an overnight hotel room. Fetish/Swing Events - if it's a play event you both go to or can go to you can use the facilities there Mutual friends. As in someone you both already know - providing said friend is ok with it. Otherwise, again you're introducing a stranger to a space.
Sentenzar Posted May 29, 2025 Outdoors, changing rooms, public toilets if they are clean, per chance still at there apartment/house but with a bit more planning around like both calling in sick and meeting up when it is certain the apartment/house will be empty. But i would totally get it if both parties don't want to reveal where each of them live.
ch**** Posted May 29, 2025 Time and place shouldn’t be the issue Go with the flow and enjoy every moment All happens for a reason
da**** Posted May 29, 2025 I have an suv with a third row and fold it down and I have a "waterproof" blanket and a pillow so she is comfy 😜
Wh**** Posted May 29, 2025 Huge obstacle, as you said hotels aren't a viable option long term. If neither one has a means for hosting it'll either become a financial burden or you have to get creative. Less time together but sometimes it's best to pause things until situations improve.
Deleted Member Posted May 29, 2025 Author Make a unique dynamic of it. Role play opportunities, too. Gotta run to the store? Have scheduled gains like meet-ups throughout the week, even for a kiss. Save *** by making the hotel a once a month thing. Be creative cuz they are worth it, and so are you.
Deleted Member Posted May 29, 2025 Could always try to find a host or something, if y'all have a good friend or maybe get a tent, find a nice abandoned area of woods. If y'all want to, there's a will, there's a way lmao. Fr be careful though
ph**** Posted May 29, 2025 As a man you shouldn’t be trying to fuck if you don’t have your own place. Go get to the *** first then think about getting your dick wet
ey**** Posted May 29, 2025 18 minutes ago, phoenix254348 said: As a man you shouldn’t be trying to fuck if you don’t have your own place. Go get to the *** first then think about getting your dick wet I mean, the OP is not a man - and you assume the people they are meeting are men. But there's like a lot of circumstances why someone cannot use the place they live : whether it's because they live at home (which doesn't mean they shouldn't have a sex life) or have some form of flat share (diito) or live somewhere particularly small (having seen the size of some £1500pcm apartments in London... yeah, can see why people not being brought round) Hell. I was living alone with a cat and a girlfriend of the time was allergic to the cat so we always had to make other arrangements on where to meet.
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