When joining a couple how should you start or go about it

[Cu****]

I was asked to join a couple they want to experiment, I’ve only joined my friends I haven’t with a brand new couple I haven’t meet. Any advice or way I should go about it?

[pe****]

Be calm , have a conversation with the man as well as her preferred separately to find out exact wants and desires. And then just go with the flow

[Deleted Member]

Find out wants needs and boundaries

[Tw****]

This is a very good question. I'm sure there have been many sad endings to group play because nobody thought to ask. The hardest part is starting the wants, needs, boundaries conversation but it tends to flow after breaking the ice. Depends a lot on the dynamic of your position in the session. Really the couple should be respectful and tell you what they want but if you have to ask make sure you do it before the meeting. That way it all flows smoother during.