cato030 Posted July 13 There’s something strangely powerful about slipping something on or in and going about your day with that secret weight, pressure, or fullness humming quietly in the background. Cock rings, plugs, ball stretchers, cages. Call it genital jewellery, hardware, accessories... whatever the label, they all tap into the same thing for me: sensation, presence, and control. It’s not always about being hard. Sometimes it’s the opposite. Being denied, being contained, being aware. A steel ring hugging tight beneath your clothes. A plug that makes every movement feel deliberate. A stretcher that swings slightly when you walk. These are the kinds of things that make you feel your body in ways you usually don’t. And there’s something undeniably erotic about carrying that feeling around quietly in public. Nobody knows. But you know. For me, it’s part sensual play, part mental shift. Even when I’m alone, it changes how I feel. Sometimes I wear them for the physical pleasure, other times for the psychological edge. And sometimes just because it makes me feel owned. By someone, or even just by the kink itself. There’s also a ritual to it. Warming the steel, adjusting the fit, cleaning, choosing the right piece for the moment. It’s personal, private, and quietly arousing. Maybe it’s a kink. Maybe it’s a mindset. Either way, the weight, feeling, secrecy all keep me wanting to wear something. What are your thoughts and feelings? Do you wear anything? Tell me more.
Do**** Posted July 13 I love this description. Some subs wear a butt plug out and about or keep themselves locked away day to day without any instruction, possibly as you say because they’re owned by the kink, and it gives them something extra in their lives. They might start communicating with me and they’ve already been doing this on their own. I think it’s great that they take those steps to make themselves feel good. I also love when I tell a sub to lock themselves up or wear a butt plug, knowing that it is giving them an amazing feeling during their day, a twinkle in their eye, an internal smile to themselves when they are doing the mundane. To be able to instruct someone to do something and give them that feeling in their life is fantastic! Depends on the motivation of the sub but some will get a huge kick from having a collar on, a stretcher on, a humbler, an anal plug attached to a collar under their clothes…. They love that they’re being made to wear these things. It’s so much fun!!!
cato030 Posted July 13 Author 1 hour ago, DommeDelight said: I love this description. Some subs wear a butt plug out and about or keep themselves locked away day to day without any instruction, possibly as you say because they’re owned by the kink, and it gives them something extra in their lives. They might start communicating with me and they’ve already been doing this on their own. I think it’s great that they take those steps to make themselves feel good. I also love when I tell a sub to lock themselves up or wear a butt plug, knowing that it is giving them an amazing feeling during their day, a twinkle in their eye, an internal smile to themselves when they are doing the mundane. To be able to instruct someone to do something and give them that feeling in their life is fantastic! Depends on the motivation of the sub but some will get a huge kick from having a collar on, a stretcher on, a humbler, an anal plug attached to a collar under their clothes…. They love that they’re being made to wear these things. It’s so much fun!!! Really appreciate you sharing your thoughts. It’s always great to hear the perspective of an experienced Domme, especially one who clearly understands the deeper layers of this kind of play. There’s something powerful in how you describe that mix of control, subtlety, and everyday intensity. Loved reading it.
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