xx**** Posted August 29 As an experienced Dom, I have trained a lot of submissives new to the lifestyle. It is so fulfilling seeing them discover the kinks that truly drive them wild. I have found that a lot of the time it isn't even something they originally desired, but something discovered through exploring during our session. Once they know they are safe, the sky is the limit and they can truly find who they are in the power exchange. I have a general structure to the first session, because it is very rare for a curious submissive to know what she wants during the first session. I normally start with some light impact play to test out their *** tolerance. It is typically with a flogger. I start them in doggy and then explore their whole body with the flogger. Then, I put them in four point restraints and give them a multi-orgasmic overstimulation experience...flogging for trying to close their legs. Once I am satisfied with their experience, I release both hands and have them use a vibrator on their clit while the suck my cock. For there is depends on the vibe. Spreader bar, or hogtie. Hard passionate sex. DP if they are able. Then they suck me off and we move to aftercare. This session structure ALWAYS keeps the curious submissives coming back. My question is, as a new submissive, what does your first fantasy session look like? How do you envision it going? Or is you are an experiences submissive and you could go back, how would you want your first session structured?
ba**** Posted August 30 Impact play ( lighter), orgasm/ overstimulated, hard impact , sensory play,*** and pleasure, aftercare
xx**** Posted August 31 Author 3 hours ago, newton-abbot23446 said: No mention of shibari, you sure your experienced. Haha...I typically start with restraints to get them comfortable before moving to rope. Quicker release if the panic. Shibari is usually session 3 for me. But you do you.
Be**** Posted August 31 14 hours ago, newton-abbot23446 said: No mention of shibari, you sure your experienced. Not all Doms even like shibari, same as not all subs do.
Ma**** Posted September 3 I would bring the pizza, but the person who ordered it won’t want to let me go — whether it’s a man, a woman, two, three, or five women, or a trans person.
Ma**** Posted September 3 I would immediately play the game that we had discussed in advance over FaceTime.
VoidMouth Posted September 23 Is it weird to want non-sexual contact? I think I'd really enjoy sensory overstimulation and (light) *** play while restrained in some way- getting into an altered headspace is exciting! Maybe hypnosis? A slow wading into the session that leaves me shaking and crying. Being able to put the reigns in someone else's hands for a while and getting to be a sub-verbal spaced out mess seems real sweet. Then of course aftercare!
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