Cuckold & Older Woman

[ca****]

Does anyone have any hints and tips about how they go about finding these two things?

[da****]

Are you looking to be cucked by an older woman or are you looking to be a bull for an older woman?

[ChastitySub4Use]

Generally you need to meet a women first, talk about what you are interested in and see if she agrees?

I was cockold to my wife (who was older than me) for 25yrs, we talked about it when we met and before we married. 

It ia not to be taken lightly because as in my case we had several offspring, none of whom are mine but I raised them, love them like my own but they are not bioligically mine and am still paying for them now 20yrs later and they have expensive hobbies such as owning horses and show jumping! 

Two are her ex-husbands and one is the gardeners from local school - neither has paid any child maintenance for them.

She also went dogging with lots of guys and posted videos online to humilate me, was done in my pickup truck and land rover too for maximum ***

I did not have penetrarive sex with my wife for the entire 25yrs of marriage and on our wedding night, the marriage was 'consumated' by her ex husband while I was put in chastity, tied to chair and made to watch

Be careful what you wish for!

 

Edited November 1, 2025 by ChastitySub4Use

[ChastitySub4Use]

and I'm currently feeding and changing the nappies on my girlfiends 6 week old that is not mine, it is her lovers. He was jamaican so trust me, it is more than obvious to anybody that 'bump' is not mine.... even with a good sun tan I'm not that dark skinned lol

 

Edited November 1, 2025 by ChastitySub4Use

[ey****]

I often think a kinda starting position of "I want to be a cuckold" is extremely difficult because it means you kinda have to find someone and woo them and everything that goes with that but then be "uh, but I don't want sex with you - no - you sex other people"

I guess it's a little while there are couples who will say they'll take on a cuck - but even then in it's own right it's just fantasy selling.

[ChastitySub4Use]

6 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I often think a kinda starting position of "I want to be a cuckold" is extremely difficult because it means you kinda have to find someone and woo them and everything that goes with that but then be "uh, but I don't want sex with you - no - you sex other people"

I guess it's a little while there are couples who will say they'll take on a cuck - but even then in it's own right it's just fantasy selling.

in my wifes case, I was on a very high salary, she liked the financial advantages and was happy to accommodate my needs

Edited November 1, 2025 by ChastitySub4Use

[ey****]

2 minutes ago, ChastitySub4Use said:

in my wifes case, I was on a very high salary, she liked the financial advantages and was happy to accommodate my needs

of course, yep - and that works in it's own right in the sense of - if my financial needs are met, would I partake in the fantasy.

[ChastitySub4Use]

1 minute ago, eyemblacksheep said:

of course, yep - and that works in it's own right in the sense of - if my financial needs are met, would I partake in the fantasy.

I don't think she had any issues with having multiple lovers either

[ChastitySub4Use]

well except the pickup bed on the land rover was a bit uncomfortable so I had to fit a foam padded lining

 

[ChastitySub4Use]

it actually had two advantages, 1) it stopped her complaining and 2) it actually made the LR quieter while driving LOL

[ChastitySub4Use]

so my main tip is if you want to watch your wife go dogging in the back of your truck make it comfortable

 

[Ca****]

After my first cuckold relationship ended I had a mistress I found on a regular dating app she was 59 ( I was 27) for oral duties and cuckold scenarios , went well and served her for over a year before finding a girlfriend for full cuckold relationships.

[MasterDwight]

They are so hard to find. I have also been looking, but I live in this state of Alabama and where I live. Everybody is really secretive about the lifestyle

[ChastitySub4Use]

I don't think it is hard to find a woman willing to do this, I've been in many relationships now with this exact scenario however you need to understand that if you want to be a cuck, your role is to provide for your wife/girlfriend/partner/mistress while she enjoys her life and can have whatever partners she chooses with no *** of issues with marriages or relationships failing due to having her freeedoms.

It is not for all and many women will not go along with it but I am in top 10% of wage earners in UK so it was maybe easier for me to find such a woman? 

Trust me, just took my latest mistress (who I am cuck to) out shopping today and she wanted a £150 bottle of perfume, a £100 dress, two £50 tops and a £100 pair of shoes. That was in one hour shopping trip. So yes, such women exist but are high maintenance!

PS. Not willy waggling, just stating facts as I know them and from my own experience. *** does get you things. However you need to understand that the women who go for this probably won't love you, just your *** so it is a pretty cold/business relationship. A genuine loving partner would not engage in this generally?

Edited November 3, 2025 by ChastitySub4Use

[ey****]

6 hours ago, ChastitySub4Use said:

I don't think it is hard to find a woman willing to do this, I've been in many relationships now with this exact scenario however you need to understand that if you want to be a cuck, your role is to provide for your wife/girlfriend/partner/mistress while she enjoys her lif

I think a little bit like a lot in kink.   The often question is "how does it benefit the other person?" and the reality is....   like if you've been with someone a lot of years and are then open to introducing cuckold into the relationship then that is one thing.  And the benefits to the other person can depend on a lot in your relationship - like I'm aware of people who have done it due to the man having impotence problems 

But when you are starting from cold... I want a partner and I want her to cuck me, then they need this to benefit them, otherwise they may as well just date the other person - and that of course is where things like financial security, companionship, etc comes into play.

[Ca****]

11 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I think a little bit like a lot in kink.   The often question is "how does it benefit the other person?" and the reality is....   like if you've been with someone a lot of years and are then open to introducing cuckold into the relationship then that is one thing.  And the benefits to the other person can depend on a lot in your relationship - like I'm aware of people who have done it due to the man having impotence problems 

But when you are starting from cold... I want a partner and I want her to cuck me, then they need this to benefit them, otherwise they may as well just date the other person - and that of course is where things like financial security, companionship, etc comes into play.

My second cuckold relationship was cuckold from the start , my first evolved from a regular relationship, and after we were cuckold we were far more intimate than before more talking kissing cuddling , holding hands, quality time and intimacy albeit without penetrative sex

[Essexlad14]

Hi I’m a 36 year old white man from Essex UK. I’m new to this. Would love to meet a cuckoldress and a bbc bull to cuck me