FETMod-HG Posted November 2 I'm assuming you're asking how you can stop you seeing the profiles of people who have message filters that mean you don't fit their desired demographic? if that's the question then no. The message filters are private within the accounts and can be changed all the time - there's no way for anyone to see how they're set apart from the person setting them. If you ever have suggestions about the site, create a ticket in help section and they will go to the tech people!
DM**** Posted November 2 Yeah that's pretty annoying. I don't spank a profile until I read it and look at their pics, so it can be disheartening to be refused. Why are you even showing me their profile? So what if the filters are private? Saying that implies that blocking people who aren't interested in me would violate their privacy, which is absurd.
Deleted Member Posted November 2 Would also be nice to skip people who havent been on for 3 or more months. Inactive... get rid of them.
al**** Posted November 2 I understand this annoyance. I have it from the opposite end. I have my filters set for 40 yr okd and older and less then 200 miles being able to message me and the same filters for my searches but yet I keep getting matched to 30-some year olds that live 2,000+ miles away. I wish I could hide my profile from those outside my preferred filters. Make it easier on all of us.
Rh**** Posted November 2 A lot of the filters are unhelpful on this site. How many people care what the other person registration date was? or what level subscription they have? Need more ways to actually find people who you share interests in
le**** Posted November 2 Author Yeah exactly im not trying to pay to send “gifts”. I actually want to talk to someone local to me that isnt 3 thousand miles away haha. Coffee meets bagel was the same way
le**** Posted November 2 Author Yeah we need to be able to filter out anybody who doesnt want to talk. I dont want to waste time clicking on their profile
le**** Posted November 2 Author 6 hours ago, FETMod-HG said: I'm assuming you're asking how you can stop you seeing the profiles of people who have message filters that mean you don't fit their desired demographic? if that's the question then no. The message filters are private within the accounts and can be changed all the time - there's no way for anyone to see how they're set apart from the person setting them. If you ever have suggestions about the site, create a ticket in help section and they will go to the tech people! I sent one. Im not against people having message filters, i just dont want them taking up all my time on here.
al**** Posted November 2 21 minutes ago, livelaughlove69 said: I sent one. Im not against people having message filters, i just dont want them taking up all my time on here. I’m not trying to stir up poop but I have to say that is what we are doing too. Trying to not waste our time by having to sift through all the messages from people that don’t fit our needs. I do agree that our filtering should makes us invisible to you if you aren’t within the parameters
le**** Posted November 3 Author 19 hours ago, Rhuie said: A lot of the filters are unhelpful on this site. How many people care what the other person registration date was? or what level subscription they have? Need more ways to actually find people who you share interests in Exactly
Sm**** Posted November 3 The solution is fairly simple, block anyone you can't message. If they don't want to talk to you there is no sense in seeing them in your feed.
DM**** Posted November 4 That's what I've started doing. If I can't spank their profile I block them. I hate doing it, but it's the responsible thing to do for my mental health.
le**** Posted November 4 Author 17 hours ago, SmokeyJ said: The solution is fairly simple, block anyone you can't message. If they don't want to talk to you there is no sense in seeing them in your feed. Takes forever tho lol
Sm**** Posted November 5 8 hours ago, DM-Mike said: How so? Just block them and refresh the home page and they'll be gone. I don't even do that. As I'm rolling through my feed I knock em out and make sure when I am done in the app I close it completely so the next time I open it up it pulls fresh data. Fixed. It also cleans up the "kinksters in your area" scroll in your feed (or what ever that section is called. 😂) 2 birds, 1 stone.
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