After consent and safewords are discussed

[Vo****]

We go out on a date and we're having fun, have a couple of drinks, everything's all good and regular vanilla blah blah blah. And then we get back to his house or my house and we put all of our stuff down and get our shoes off while we happily recap how much fun it was to go out and talk about silly things.

And then with no warning I'm pushed up against the wall with my hands pinned above my head completely at his mercy while he does whatever he damn well pleases despite my scared whimpers "what are you doing" and begging him "please dont" while my fluids begin to pool under me on the floor.
Then when he's had enough of that He throws me on the bed, wraps his hand around my throat while he rips off my clothes and just goes to town wrecking me, spanking me, pulling my head back by my hair, gripping my throat right before I explode each time, all while I beg for mercy and fight back just enough to make it fun until I'm just left whimpering and trembling in a puddle of our combined fluids while gasping for air.

And after were both satisfied and drained, out of breath and coming back to reality He sweetly tells me how much a good girl I am while he pulls me into his arms to cuddle, and he pets my hair and rubs my back. Then we turn on a movie and eat some snacks while we talk about how pretty my bruises are gonna look tomorrow and how when he did the one thing I went damn near insane and forgot how to use words and we slowly drift off into a very much needed nap all cuddled up happy and safe in each other's arms.

[X3****]

They are called D4vds

[Si****]

We are here — we are just cautious and we start off really slow

[Sh****]

We are definitely still here

[Ba****]

Definitely here but way more…safer now

[Grimforsaken]

Oh, this is still too soft. Best not play with me.

[Deleted Member]

They are out there. Lots of them. On the other hand, it's also become pretty popular to not pretend to r@pe someone.

[Kymoeguy]

It sounds like he was not being mindful, there is a level of responsibility the safeword should be the only factor.

[sardonicus87]

Out there looking for women that actually want that in reality and not in e-fantasy, and will actually COMMUNICATE IT IN WORDS, like an adult.
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"But I don't want to say/ask, it ruins the surprise!"
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Tough titties, nobody wants to catch a charge or to be booted out—say explicitly you want it or don't get your needs met, leave the bs games back in high school.

[fi****]

All honesty. That guy you mentioned is being overlooked in someone's dm right now

[wo****]

What happened? Me too, false accusations, and shaming male sexuality became a sport in the public discourse.

Men don’t require much in order to “feel safe” to have sex with random women.
1. Be reasonably certain she won’t bite his dick off
2. Be reasonably certain he is not being set up to be robbed
3. Be reasonably certain she isn’t going to make false accusations

Men still blow off 2-3 of of them too much but once me too hit and it became acceptable for a woman to claim sexual *** 10 years after and destroy a man’s reputation regardless of what the truth is it’s a whole new landscape.

Essentially, it’s feminism’s fault. Family courts that hold the women’s wants above even the ***’s best interests. Now restraining orders are granted to women like candy, zero proof needed. Due process? Fuck you, leave your house now or be arrested. The changed definition of sexual *** and propaganda about “*** culture” on campuses.

It’s now common for kids to be raised in single mother homes. The multitude of bad results of that aside, boys raised without a dad present become feminized and girls have no idea how men are supposed to act.

100 years ago it was acceptable for a man to grab hold of or slap their wife if she began ranting and raving. Guess what? It worked, just like it continues to work today when men do it to other men.

Now a woman’s ranting gets blamed on the man. Boys are taught that they are defective girls because masculinity is toxic. So, unless you are dealing with a guy who knows you well, and trusts you won’t lie on him even if he infuriates or otherwise triggers you or you are dealing with an adventurous risk taker/ reckless guy… get used to men being bitches because that’s how society (feminism) wants it

[mb****]

I happen to agree and think our community is guilty accepting what people accuse others of without letting other people say their side of the story or make sense sometimes people really are sorry and truly didn’t know

I have seen it happen 3x where someone know in our community was accused or cancelled and disgraced where in one case I been to the dungeon he ran numerous times and he wouldn’t even touch a female because of this and had someone of same sex show etc