Hypocrisy and double standards

[mi****]

I dont really feel like the consent thing is a double standard or hypocrisy.
Like the dom may be in charge of the scene, but both People consent or its not ok

[Co****]

It's not hypocritical at all? The consent does flow both ways, you can revoke it at any point and cease being a dom whenever you like, just as she can cease being a sub whenever she likes. You both hold equal *actual* power, seperate from the scene or play. Why does this bother you, and why do you find it hypocritical?

[Wi****]

I understand

[Ba****]

13 hours ago, Cowboyleone said:

It's not hypocritical at all? The consent does flow both ways, you can revoke it at any point and cease being a dom whenever you like, just as she can cease being a sub whenever she likes. You both hold equal *actual* power, seperate from the scene or play. Why does this bother you, and why do you find it hypocritical?

Wait really??

First of yes consent flows both way, that was part of the point and you really can’t see how it’s hypocritical too happily have someone else hold all responsibility while retroactively claiming all power using one persons ability to consent as the justification??

Second if you actually can just „cease being a dom/sub whenever you like“ please do so, my identity is not your fashion