First time!

[xR****]

So, while the relationship soured super quick, I had my first real few scenes and oh man! It was so amazing! The whole world disappeared and for the first time in years I was actually able to relax and my brain shut off! This is what I have been missing my whole life!

So, who remembers their first time? What was it like, good and bad?

[Sm****]

I'm glad your experience went well and hope you have many more in the future. Sometimes they sour; it happens, but enjoy yourself until you find your fit.

[si****]

I had my first kinky date with an absolute paragon... Oh it was 🥵🥵🥵

[xR****]

2 minutes ago, sillygoose9876 said:

I had my first kinky date with an absolute paragon... Oh it was 🥵🥵🥵

Right?! So amazing! All my previous partners were super vanilla, or they wanted me to do stuff I wasn't comfortable with. This time was such fire! Like, I could get addicted to that.

[Bo****]

Every good relationship starts with a very candid conversation. Glad you found the right experience.

[Bu****]

My first kinky date was definitely intense but in a good way. Definitely some of the most fun I've ever had. Opened up a whole new lifestyle I didn't know I was missing.

[NY****]

My first experience was amazing. Prior to that I’ve always had vanilla experiences with some elements of BDSM, however, it always felt as if my partners were just attempting to placate me and that they weren’t genuinely interested. So to have finally met someone who matched me entirely, but also went above and beyond to fulfill my desires, was euphoric. I’m glad you enjoyed yourself.

[xR****]

1 hour ago, Buddhablazee said:

My first kinky date was definitely intense but in a good way. Definitely some of the most fun I've ever had. Opened up a whole new lifestyle I didn't know I was missing.

This right here! My domme and I had a falling out, but in that hit the spot so good. Like candy you can't get enough of. 😭

[lo****]

I’m still waiting for mine😩

[Ro****]

Congrats for getting that experience and yes, it is addicting. Keep that in mind that you are under the influence of an euphoria. It's worth it when the compatibility and trust is there.

[xR****]

23 minutes ago, RogueLynx said:

Congrats for getting that experience and yes, it is addicting. Keep that in mind that you are under the influence of an euphoria. It's worth it when the compatibility and trust is there.

Yeah, unfortunately it's lost now, at least with that person. Which sucks, but even if we ever tried again, I can't trust enough to feel safe anymore. But, oh so addicting, for sure!

[Bu****]

💯 get that. And sucks about the fallout. Though you'll definitely have more opportunities to feel that rush again.

[gy****]

My first time i was both scared and anxious transitioning from vanilla relationship to kink, he had build it up with a slow foreplay progression to ease me into it and when it was time, it was just me and him, and my senses. Ive never felt so connected and whole, I knew after we were done that this is the path I wanted to be on. Its the complete trust in another to put me in a sub space, trusting him to lead me and take me safely.

[Ta****]

Reading your post brought back some very vivid memories.

My most memorable ‘first time’ experience happened in a long-distance situation with an incredibly intelligent, high-powered executive — a married woman with a commanding presence that turned heads everywhere she went. She held a senior position at a prestigious bank, and by her own account, her husband had completely checked out.

What started as an unexpected connection quickly led to hotel room encounters that completely blew my mind. The moment the door closed, this composed, professional woman transformed. She became an absolute *** — wild, insatiable, and fully surrendered. Our sessions would last for hours. She was so intensely sexual that I’d sometimes fly an hour just to spend the night with her, then head straight back to work the next morning completely spent.

She’d wait for me already prepared: partially tied to the bed, no panties, eager and dripping with anticipation. We explored everything — passionate, uninhibited sex mixed with light restraint, public teasing (fingering in restaurants, her discreetly touching me in public), and pure raw chemistry. It was one of the most intense, addictive experiences of my life.

That woman taught me how powerful it can be when someone who constantly carries heavy responsibility finally gets to completely let go.

[MasterAidan]

I remember it… Well like my first time in person, the slave I owned, her name was jewel, she made things so beautiful and magical for me. It was so amazing. Things weren’t perfect, and eventually things ended due to things outside both our control, and sometimes I like feel sad thinking about it cuz I wanted it to be so meaningful but I think it still was and I try not to regret it. Memories I guess. It was also so crazy cuz she was 7 years older than me and my free-use and TPE slave at the time, and things she said stuck with me.

[am****]

I'm so jealous. I've had a couple scenes with guys I thought I clicked with, but have yet to get to the disappearing world phase. Congrats!

[Si****]

Rope plays are amazing and I remember rigging my first, beautiful connection

[Deleted Member]

Shutting my brain off has never happened for me. This sounds incredible and liberating and healing!

[Lu****]

All the love

[Or****]

I’ve only ever went to sub space a couple of time but when it’s with the right person I’m also at least hyper aware and present the whole time. Not struggling to stay turned on like when I’ve been in vanilla relationships.