A dom male can’t eat enjoy to eat pussy?

[Lu****]

Recently when I went to eat her pussy she stopped me and said that dom male don’t eat pussy, honestly that makes no sense on my opinion I enjoy to taste, the situation and the view of pleasure on her. And during the conversation she said I was actually a switch, I would like to know other opinions

[DevourThee]

She’s completely wrong, doms can absolutely still enjoy giving oral and pleasure.

[Br****]

Dom's love to eat pussy

[RebeccaTheGreat]

The only thing I can think of that could come across as you being a switch is, you eat women out to see the pleasure on their face. I don't know what you mean about the situation, but in certain contexts this could also be why she views you as a switch. She may have a certain view about doms or she prefers doms to be a certain way. You should ask her what she would do or think if hypothetically you were a switch. This could answer some questions. Yes doms can enjoy eating pussy, but it's not usually done in an acts of service kind of way.

Edited July 13 by RebeccaTheGreat

[DK****]

she wrong i love doing that till they squirm

[Lu****]

38 minutes ago, RebeccaTheGreat said:

The only thing I can think of that could come across as you being a switch is, you eat women out to see the pleasure on their face. I don't know what you mean about the situation, but in certain contexts this could also be why she views you as a switch. She may have a certain view about doms or she prefers doms to be a certain way. You should ask her what she would do or think if hypothetically you were a switch. This could answer some questions. Yes doms can enjoy eating pussy, but it's not usually done in an acts of service kind of way.

We had a conversation and in her opinion a guy submitting to pleasure a woman is not 100% in charge, I asked even if you re tied up?, she said you’re getting in a position of submission doing that. I understood what she said but I disagree, I made the topic to see other people perspective about the situation.

[Lu****]

Devourthee, BrattyGirl75 and DKDesire thank you to share your opinions

[De****]

She's wrong. Lbvs, you're a pleasure Dom. You get off by pleasuring females.

[Lu****]

5 minutes ago, Devil-Angel69 said:

She's wrong. Lbvs, you're a pleasure Dom. You get off by pleasuring females.

interesting term 🤔

[to****]

I think you need read what you have written. She is testing you as a bratty sub. You need to go and learn and educate yourself on how to take control of a submissive. If I was you, I would have a conversation if this isn’t just an online dynamic. Listen and take this information and construct a dynamic where you hold her lead. Once you have created your dynamic and structure. You need to put down limits for you being in your power. Positions of Dominance take time, communication, knowing limits, aftercare and consent. Once established. She is like a new car, you start taking it easy until you get used to rid. After that, she is all yours. She will give you her soul. Hope this sort explanation helps. Be the man, if she can’t do it. You need to get a better fit and don’t look back.

[Codysho]

Then you did it wrong! Strap her down and tell her that you need to taste her to make sure she is worthy of an orgasm

[Lu****]

45 minutes ago, toowoomba114237 said:

I think you need read what you have written. She is testing you as a bratty sub. You need to go and learn and educate yourself on how to take control of a submissive. If I was you, I would have a conversation if this isn’t just an online dynamic. Listen and take this information and construct a dynamic where you hold her lead. Once you have created your dynamic and structure. You need to put down limits for you being in your power. Positions of Dominance take time, communication, knowing limits, aftercare and consent. Once established. She is like a new car, you start taking it easy until you get used to rid. After that, she is all yours. She will give you her soul. Hope this sort explanation helps. Be the man, if she can’t do it. You need to get a better fit and don’t look back.

She is exploring the water, I didn’t want to cross the line. On her opinion edge and denied it’s a switch thing because even though you’re in control of the orgasm you’re submitting yourself to somebody’s pleasure (her worlds not mine).

[Codysho]

I get that. But who makes the rules? The Dom or the Sub?

I think she was testing boundaries like a brat. And how do you tame a brat?

[Etiam_mi_rex]

Definitely not a switch thing.

[Lu****]

30 minutes ago, Codysho said:

I get that. But who makes the rules? The Dom or the Sub?

I think she was testing boundaries like a brat. And how do you tame a brat?

Very good point 💪🏽😎

[Bo****]

Tell her you didn’t ask her opinion, hold her down, then bring her right to the edge. Then get dressed and leave. She’ll ask nicely next time. If not, go quote Jay Z “On to the next one” 😂

[Lu****]

Just now, Born-to-win said:

Tell her you didn’t ask her opinion, hold her down, then bring her right to the edge. Then get dressed and leave. She’ll ask nicely next time. If not, go quote Jay Z “On to the next one” 😂

😂😂😂😂

[ey****]

I guess an issue in general is folk keep pigeonholing acts as being "Dominant" or "submissive" when a lot come down to context and.... 'pussy eating' isn't really either, it's a sex act.   It may be she has her own hang ups or preconceptions.   She may need you to rephrase it... i.e. as your Dominant you should make your pussy available to me...

orrrrrrrrr - and hear me on this --- it could be she doesn't actually want you to do this, and her saying this is a NO.    In which case, you need to respect that it's a limit for her.

[Ni****]

The best thing about being a Dom is, I decide and do whatever I like.

I Love IT and an eat Pussy when ever i wand

[Fu****]

I'll do what I damn well please! And if that's 👅😺 then a good girl will lay down or be tied down for it

[Pa****]

That's dumb, she's wrong. Munch away. Best punishment/ rewards ever can be thru denial, edging, biting, overstimulation. Make her immobile first, see how she feels then.

[Deleted Member]

Conditioned by a psychologically abusive, selfish, immature Dom maybe?

[Sq****]

I think there's a deeper issue or miscommunication that should probably be addressed and communicated.

[Ro****]

Solopoly submissive past 10 years POV here, not that it makes me ever knowing but I do have some experience here.

What feels like a total power move to one person might feel like an act of submission to another. It all comes down to personal framing, history, and psychology.
The Different Lenses People Use

The "Service" Lens:

Some people view oral sex inherently as an act of service or worship because one person is physically giving while the other is receiving. If your partner views it this way, she might genuinely struggle to connect it with dominance.

The "Ownership" Lens:

On the flip side, many view it as an act of conquest or consumption. The person giving oral is the one orchestrating the pleasure, setting the pace, and deciding exactly when and how the other person gets to cross the finish line.

The "Vulnerability" Lens:

Receiving oral sex puts someone in a highly exposed, *** position. For many submissives, surrendering to that vulnerability is exactly what makes them feel small and taken care of by a dominant partner.

Bridging the Gap

Because people see things through such different lenses, you can't rely on "standard" definitions. Your definition and her definition are currently clashing.

The goal isn't to prove her wrong, but to understand her lens. If she views it as a service act, she might feel like she is losing her submissive headspace when you do it.

Conversely, if you can explain to her how it makes you feel dominant, it might help her see the act in a completely new light.

[Lu****]

51 minutes ago, RogueLynx said:

Solopoly submissive past 10 years POV here, not that it makes me ever knowing but I do have some experience here.

What feels like a total power move to one person might feel like an act of submission to another. It all comes down to personal framing, history, and psychology.
The Different Lenses People Use

The "Service" Lens:

Some people view oral sex inherently as an act of service or worship because one person is physically giving while the other is receiving. If your partner views it this way, she might genuinely struggle to connect it with dominance.

The "Ownership" Lens:

On the flip side, many view it as an act of conquest or consumption. The person giving oral is the one orchestrating the pleasure, setting the pace, and deciding exactly when and how the other person gets to cross the finish line.

The "Vulnerability" Lens:

Receiving oral sex puts someone in a highly exposed, *** position. For many submissives, surrendering to that vulnerability is exactly what makes them feel small and taken care of by a dominant partner.

Bridging the Gap

Because people see things through such different lenses, you can't rely on "standard" definitions. Your definition and her definition are currently clashing.

The goal isn't to prove her wrong, but to understand her lens. If she views it as a service act, she might feel like she is losing her submissive headspace when you do it.

Conversely, if you can explain to her how it makes you feel dominant, it might help her see the act in a completely new light.

Wow you pretty much explained her better than herself, the “service” leans was her argument when we talked