Brat

[ia****]

I know I’m a brat. Everything I’ve read, every test I’ve taken, many conversations have led to that same conclusion. I am actively searching for the right dom and it’s so hard to find one I’m attracted to who is close and experienced and likes brats. Any advice? I’m so new to real life experience in this area. I am extremely stubborn as I’m used to being in charge in my day to day but I just wanna submit and not think for a while.

[hr****]

I totally understand this frustration! there are many people out there who say that they are "doms" but are not actually prepared for what a sub needs.

[Is****]

Works both ways tho, im a dom but also had experiences with subs that are quick to judge whos a dom or not, it just needs to click with 2 parties, that’s a tuff search, i has the same problem the other way around

I hope you find a suitable one real quick and you get to turn you toughts off and feel light, dumb and empty of management urges, best of luck to you

[sc****]

My first sub was a brat and it was a deep learning curve for me. Sometimes as a dom you have to figure out weather the brat is bratting or somethings wrong. So i just asked you looking for trouble or is something bothering you? I learned quickly witch one it was. Its hard to find a sub whos close that on here seems both ways

[Ye****]

I’m not really bratty but I do feel what you’re saying 100%. Work life = not submissive the rest of my like = 100% haha.
It’s so hard to find the right person or often even to explain what I am even looking for! I hope you find the right dom soon!

[Ba****]

If you are a brat - stop it (c) Jason Statham😅🤟

[De****]

Submission is a practice…. Like yoga. You practice at submitting. Sometimes you don’t get there all the way, sometimes you will. You keep practicing and you will get better and better at letting go of the control.

[An****]

As a dom that tames brats I’ll tell you 💯 we don’t like or respect brats. Its annoying. Pick a man you want to dominate you and submit to him. It’s that easy

[Et****]

A lot of the guys on here are all talk. Most of them are just horny losers that would never try anything on their profile in real life. They just get aroused by what they experience through porn and then don’t know how to speak to women. 9 times out of 10, their hand is the only idea of sex they understand. That’s why so many of them just want to sext and get more nudes from you, when they could literally just get it off the hub. Just weird antisocial pervs

[Au****]

How do you know you are a brat? I’m asking for myself. I still don’t know what I am or which part of what is actually me. Appreciate any advice for finding this out (yes of course I do my research but still, any link to a “test” maybe). I get your double life situation (leader at work needing freedom of responsibility in intimate life) totally btw. All the best☘️

[Is****]

6 hours ago, Etobicoke_Titts said:

A lot of the guys on here are all talk. Most of them are just horny losers that would never try anything on their profile in real life. They just get aroused by what they experience through porn and then don’t know how to speak to women. 9 times out of 10, their hand is the only idea of sex they understand. That’s why so many of them just want to sext and get more nudes from you, when they could literally just get it off the hub. Just weird antisocial pervs

It’s sad but 90% true I guess…
But there is also a energy factor, i don’t believe it’s just dominating or submitting, if you think it’s that easy, sounds toxic to me…
I’m most definitely a dom, and have let it come to practice many times
But also had situations where it didn’t come out because the other party was not connecting but did want a sub/dom session, it just felt way to toxic for that side of me to come out.
In my opinion a good dom is also caring in the start, when the mutual connection is there, then the fun could start and then you can build a decent sub/dom relationship that could grow instead of just having something and throwing it away after use, that’s all fun and games in the play but not for real, take responsibility for your role

[Ba****]

My advice; focus on finding one you are attracted to
The rest is optional, one who is mobile and flexible but a bit further away can be better than someone close but short on time, someone on your experience level who is willing to learn together with you is better than someone experienced who rigidly follows their „one true way“ and as long as they don’t have a overt distaste for brats you‘ll be able to work something out

Also, not to question your self-identification but more to give you a reason to reexamine yourself, are you sure that you are a brat??
Could just be me reading to deeply between the lines but do you enjoy being stubborn, pushing buttons you shouldn’t and rebelling against your chosen authority or does you apparent reluctance to just submit and not think actually bother you enough to motivate you to want to work on changing that??

[fa****]

so… Im definitely a brat after reading your comment @Barthold

[Bo****]

It’s all about a person’s energy. If you are tuned into yourself with the right frequency you will attract others on that same level. Energy is everything. Most people don’t understand how important this is for living a full happy life. Most doms think they know but don’t know themselves. They perceive themselves as doms ( learning from porn) and don’t get everything that is involved in it. It comes from within. It’s ones energy.