First time

[Deleted Member]

Hi, I have met a really great guy on an online dating site and over the course of our conversations he admitted that he liked to take a submissive role in a relationship. I’ve never really thought about taking on the role of a Domme but things naturally progressed and the first time he called me mistress  something clicked for me and we are now messaging every day. 

We are in a long distance relationship and I could really do with some advice on what to do!! I have given him some tasks to do and for the most part it has worked for both of us but I am conscious that I am new to this and don’t want to do anything to damage it or him.

Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

[Lucifer-1]

Hi, message me I am happy to suggest some ideas for you to task your sub x

[VictoriaBlisse]

6 hours ago, Lucifer-1 said:

Hi, message me I am happy to suggest some ideas for you to task your sub x

Maybe write some suggestions here so everyone can benefit? :D 

[Deleted Member]

Any help and advice would be gratefully received thank you

[DominatrixSheba]

You could make him wear ladies knickers under his clothes, or a ribbon around his cock, give him a craft project and a deadline to make you a present, learn a song and sing it to you - make it a difficult one - house of pain, jump around is good to watch them do. Of course you punish them for any failure of the tasks, if they are late doing it, complain about it, get a word wrong etc.

Give him lines if he gets things wrong - 200 lines of 'I must not ........... again' or something similar. Or make him put an elastic band around his foot and twang it a certain amount of times (this hurts so don't be too brutal). Or a week of chastity.......

[Deleted Member]

Some great suggestions there thank you 😊