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Slaveboy0807
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I am a slave and I revere my Mistress but she ask me to treat her friends with same amount of love and respect I have for her. 

Do I literally need to show same kind of respect and reverence to her (mistress) friends? 

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You're a slave, As long as she's not breaking any renegotiated limits then you should obey your mistress.
HamCoBondage
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That seems to be an easy question. The answer as a slave should be yes. Unless it specifically goes against your negotiated terms
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Agree with the previous comments - though would add that it depends on what "respect and reverence" means when it comes to her friends and more importantly how you feel about it.
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If it wasn't discussed/agreed up front, and you're uncomfortable with it then you should discuss with her and explain why you're uncomfortable with it.
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It may also depend on the circumstances involved - is it on-line and the "friends" are complete unknowns for example?
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Either way the fact you have raised it here suggests you have concerns and the only way you can really resolve it is by talking to your Mistress.
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When I was slave to a Dom it was pre agreed that I was only slave to Him. I was expected to show due respect to His acquaintances, and serve in terms of fetching drinks etc, but only in the way one would respond in a vanilla way. I always make it clear to any Dom I serve them and them alone unless we have discussed and agreed otherwise. Maybe you just need to talk to Her?
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different folks have different expectancies - and putting things into context can make a big difference

so when I was in a D/s relationship one of the rules from my Mistress was about her friends and they were all pretty obvious.

She wanted me to greet them as I would her - in essence this was a way that showed her training on me and that I would be a good representative of her when she was not there

and that I'd follow any reasonable instruction from her friends and it's all the same kinda logic

a basic, kinda, you should behave as if I am there, even if I am not.

But the only friends of hers I ever met were also into D/s.  I imagine if I was in a situation where it was vanilla friends then some elements might be relaxed.

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Clear communication is key. I would want my sub to just ask so I can clarify. I don’t like any confusion or lack of clear guidelines with my sub.

Everyone’s dynamic and situation are different though so the simple answer may not be the easy answer.
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I love obedience it’s the best when I don’t want to do something but the domme ***s you to
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