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Many people wonder why men even have nipples. In my experience, they are powerful sex organs. If I want to get aroused, rubbing my nipples can do that even quicker than fondling my dick. However they do get overstimulated easily and quickly. Does that happen to women too? My wife has asked me to stop rubbing her nipples before because it starts not feeling good.

Anyway, anyone share my experience with becoming and staying aroused through nipple stimulation alone?
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I've been known to come by just sucking my nipples.
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You are making an excellent point. In my previous/vanilla life, I also wondered why we have nipples, as silly as it sounds now! It didn't take long after I joined the lifestyle to get a pleasurable answer, haha!
I love both giving and receiving. The receiving part I use it exactly as you say for getting hard. It always works for me, no matter the timing and circumstances. That being said, I dont indulge in it alone. I like to talk and hold my partner's head in ways that project my dominance. Depending on the moment and my lover's preferences, I want to engage in impact fun, preferably in the face area or other body parts. Sure, any of these things can create arousal and an erection. Yet I have regularly witnessed how adding nipple stimulation will keep me engaged even in circumstances where I might have given the action a pass in favour of some cuddles or something less energetic, lol!

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Just to add an alternative view. My nipples are not sensitive! They do nothing for me! I wish they did. I knew a girl who could cum from having hers touched, but mine are just numb. Sorry!
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47 minutes ago, Toxic_Meerkat said:
Just to add an alternative view. My nipples are not sensitive! They do nothing for me! I wish they did. I knew a girl who could cum from having hers touched, but mine are just numb. Sorry!

I appreciate this view too. Mine do get overstimulated quickly and it doesn't feel good anymore. Does anyone else have the overstimulation problem? Do you continue as a kind of ***, and does that actually arouse you? I'm finding this may happen for me after the actual pleasurable sensation is past. So arousal either way I guess. Win-win! 😋

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A bit of a side topic, but definitely freeing the nipple 😏 to a more prominent and deserved place in our sexual practice... Does anyone else do what I call edging lite? I stimulate my nipples often throughout the day, as well as viewing porn and chatting with sexy people, in an effort to remain aroused almost constantly. As an older man, I do have trouble getting and maintaining an erection while masturbating, and I've found that this edging lite is actually more pleasurable than cumming for me. Constant arousal is a quite nice feeling that also tends to make me more assertive and productive in my daily life. Winning on several levels! 😋
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8 hours ago, coni1 said:
Love my husband playing with my nipples

Do you find your nipples getting overstimulated after awhile, or does it remain pleasurable? Can you climax from just nipple stimulation?

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1 hour ago, Toxic_Meerkat said:

Just to add an alternative view. My nipples are not sensitive! They do nothing for me! I wish they did. I knew a girl who could cum from having hers touched, but mine are just numb. Sorry!

Thanks for sharing your experience. Reading what you posted made me remember that during my vanilla years, I had partners who would spend a little time or "pass by" the nipple area without me feeling much. That made me assume my nipples weren't sensitive. It took a very caring, submissive lover who spent quite some time trying to make me aroused. She argued that it is almost impossible for a man with relatively big nipples not to feel anything. Bless her, she was proven right in the end, and I became sure I could enjoy that extra, erotogenic area. 

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I wonder too if nipple sensitivity is partly how our brains are wired, since the biggest sex organ is the brain, afterall! 😊 I am a huge nipple fan anyway, and I wonder if loving nipples tends to make mine more sensitive?
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29 minutes ago, KinkyDomProf said:

Thanks for sharing your experience. Reading what you posted made me remember that during my vanilla years, I had partners who would spend a little time or "pass by" the nipple area without me feeling much. That made me assume my nipples weren't sensitive. It took a very caring, submissive lover who spent quite some time trying to make me aroused. She argued that it is almost impossible for a man with relatively big nipples not to feel anything. Bless her, she was proven right in the end, and I became sure I could enjoy that extra, erotogenic area. 

Unfortunately I'm cursed with tiny nipples! I had then pierced a couple of years ago, and they were so ***ful I had to take them out. I should probably get them pierced again. I'm told it can make them more sensitive.

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I would be curious to know if there are things you can do to make them more sensitive. Any tips would be gratefully received!
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A young lady told me recently that piercing her nipples definitely made them more sensitive. It certainly made them look pretty. 😏
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20 minutes ago, EagerSub4U said:

A bit of a side topic, but definitely freeing the nipple 😏 to a more prominent and deserved place in our sexual practice... Does anyone else do what I call edging lite? I stimulate my nipples often throughout the day, as well as viewing porn and chatting with sexy people, in an effort to remain aroused almost constantly. As an older man, I do have trouble getting and maintaining an erection while masturbating, and I've found that this edging lite is actually more pleasurable than cumming for me. Constant arousal is a quite nice feeling that also tends to make me more assertive and productive in my daily life. Winning on several levels! 😋

I can see the point of increasing the stimulation via the activities you mentioned to counterbalance an undeniable ageing effect in erection. I found myself in similar situations initially, also attributing them to growing older. That was before joining the lifestyle, and it lasted on and off for the first year until I came to terms with my true inclination.

Have you or anybody else considered the importance of the area the stimulation is derived from in initiating and maintaining arousal? 

I am affectionate and love cuddling and kissing, and it's such great fun to do that with my partner. Years ago, that could do the trick for me regarding arousal, but not anymore. Now, I have discovered the true areas where I derive sexual satisfaction, which feels incredible. So if I dont get my stimulation from these areas, I dont feel a high level of arousal to remain hard, and quite frankly, why should I or anybody? 

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27 minutes ago, KinkyDomProf said:

I can see the point of increasing the stimulation via the activities you mentioned to counterbalance an undeniable ageing effect in erection. I found myself in similar situations initially, also attributing them to growing older. That was before joining the lifestyle, and it lasted on and off for the first year until I came to terms with my true inclination.

Have you or anybody else considered the importance of the area the stimulation is derived from in initiating and maintaining arousal? 

I am affectionate and love cuddling and kissing, and it's such great fun to do that with my partner. Years ago, that could do the trick for me regarding arousal, but not anymore. Now, I have discovered the true areas where I derive sexual satisfaction, which feels incredible. So if I dont get my stimulation from these areas, I dont feel a high level of arousal to remain hard, and quite frankly, why should I or anybody? 

I appreciate your perspective and experience. I certainly don't remain hard all day when edging lite. But it does keep the arousal chemicals pumping through my system, which is both pleasant and energizing.

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5 hours ago, Toxic_Meerkat said:

I would be curious to know if there are things you can do to make them more sensitive. Any tips would be gratefully received!

Mine have become for sure more sensitive by aging. I don't think it would have remotely done anything when I was in my twenties.

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As a man ive always had sensitive ones. Sometimes they would tingle all by themselves. Sometimes id forget about them for months.

 

But since dressing and doing the odd body mod its almost half my orgasm now. Just as i cum i pinch them and explode twice as hard. I also need them gently touched for the duration or i lose interest.

 

Kind of annoying as i used to just like normal sex too haha.

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40 minutes ago, Transfused said:

As a man ive always had sensitive ones. Sometimes they would tingle all by themselves. Sometimes id forget about them for months.

 

But since dressing and doing the odd body mod its almost half my orgasm now. Just as i cum i pinch them and explode twice as hard. I also need them gently touched for the duration or i lose interest.

 

Kind of annoying as i used to just like normal sex too haha.

Thanks for your input. I kinda wish mine were more sensitive. They do get me aroused quickly, but then it's like they get numb. I'd like some more bang for my rub! Lol. Any pointers from you all on how to make nipples more sensitive?

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Get some nipple suckers from ebay with the white twist grip at the top. Im not sure they make them loads more sensitive but having fruit pastel sized nipples definitely enhances the fun. 

 

Ice cubes or just some water make mine a bit more perky and enjoyable.

 

Ive noticed they have to be played with gently like just brushing them or they get overloaded and like you say isnt enjoyable. She knows just how to do while we screw now haha

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16 minutes ago, Transfused said:

Get some nipple suckers from ebay with the white twist grip at the top. Im not sure they make them loads more sensitive but having fruit pastel sized nipples definitely enhances the fun. 

 

Ice cubes or just some water make mine a bit more perky and enjoyable.

 

Ive noticed they have to be played with gently like just brushing them or they get overloaded and like you say isnt enjoyable. She knows just how to do while we screw now haha

Hey, all good pointers, thanks! 😋 I think I do need to play more gently to keep them sensitive.

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My nipples are directly connected to my penis. Biting for thirty seconds and I'm fully erect.

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