Is it right for mistresses to ask for tribute?

[Es****]

Here's a question. If you've been in a bar have you ever offered a woman you wish to talk to a drink? Or have you been talking to a woman and she's smiled and asked you to buy her a drink? Does that remove emotional aspect and making it professional?

Nope. Never have I ever. I don’t like that tradition either.

[Es****]

15 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

Here's a question.  If you've been in a bar have you ever offered a woman you wish to talk to a drink? Or have you been talking to a woman and she's smiled and asked you to buy her a drink?  Does that remove emotional aspect and making it professional?

Nope. Never have I ever. I don’t like that tradition either. Of course, I’ve never been to a bar either.

[su****]

it’s okay if you’re not into it, but there are plenty of people that are. just because you don’t enjoy the kink doesn’t mean it doesn’t have a valid place inside of BDSM spaces. dudes enjoy spoiling pretty women sometimes, and a lot of them enjoy other aspects of femdom kink play outside of just sending ***.

[Deleted Member]

I agree mistresses should not be making *** for a fetish of theirs .. it's a spiraling business that's way out of control. People get into these fetishes for fun and hobby.. to be controlled .

[Mz****]

Short answer is yes it is absolutely right. Why because most male bottoms only show up to women with a list of services

[Emilyxyz306]

It’s absolute right. A Mistress takes a lot of time and care in training her sub. The amount of responsibility, time and devotion should be appreciated. I do like gifts etc form my sub that show me their appreciation are not just empty words

[Branko]

Its abut fetishes some like dominant others People like a slaves.Dominant is sadist,slave is mazohist.Slave not must pay with ***,slave s pay is on body.

[Charms]

I'd never give a person of here tribute. Way to many women  asking for it. So many scammers .

 

If you had a contract and had been in a dynamic for a year then yes  . But not that much . Just think a person may not be able to afford things.

 

Iv been  with my master nearly 8 years and I'd buy him thing if he asked. He does but it's socks grrr

[At****]

So many ‘Dommes’, fake or not, ask for tribute it almost seems like a legit way to make ***. Personally, I categorize them as scammers. I’m all for paying for things and I appreciate all the time and work genuine Dommes put into training their subs, but a person, male or female, that you don’t know anything about, hiding behind their computer, asking for a fee for a service they have yet to provide, and maybe will, means they’re out. If I should pay them anything, call it fee, tribute, gifts, or whatever, I would have to meet them first, in person, then we’ll figure out how we will continue and if there should be some kind of payment involved.

[sillysub]

I mean it's okay for her to ask but at the end of the day it's your ***. If she can't accept no as an answer, then she's not the Domme for you. True Dommes negotiate between the two parties kinks and limits. 

[or****]

True doms either male or female know the bond between sub and dom is much greater than financial gain that today’s females are seeking. Everyone wants an easy payday. I personally could never see myself trusting a dom I have to pay. In my opinion it ruins everything. You need to build trust and respect your dom, that’s something that’s earned not bought. That being said, I know there are different opinions about this and that’s great. If that’s what you’re comfortable with then by all means do it you’ll figure out what works best for you. Ultimately you’re in control even though you’re not.

Food for thought, for what it’s worth, I’m dom less. 97.8% my fault I don’t pay to play especially with someone I’m allowing to push me beyond my limits… 🙃

[Re****]

Is it right for broke men to think they’re more entitled to a Princess’ time than the mindless atms that will send their entire life savings without even being asked? Get it together, boys, this comment section is miserable & disappointing

[su****]

I'd pay tribute as long as they provide some evidence they're not a scam (video call, verification photo, etc). If verifying they're a real person prior to tribute is somehow unacceptable, then they're most likely a scam.

[wo****]

Find what works for you. A lot of time goes into any arrangement I wouldn’t assume anything from anybody domme or sub to be free. That being said having conversations about boundaries and limits are so important ! Just as there are dommes who dont have good intentions there are subs who just want a glorified sexting buddy from a woman they’d never approach in real life . Just be realistic!