Male (45) Single
Seeking Lifestyle Mistress
Hi, I am an active, submissive male seeking a long term, female led relationship. I'm looking for a partner, not a playmate. I have a strong desire to serve and very much crave the control that comes from a Domme / sub relationship. I continue to feel lost without that special someone; a Lady to serve as Her loving, devoted and obedient slave.
I am not looking for a leather clad Dominatrix, simply a Lady, my Goddess / Soulmate who I can serve, love, honour, cherish, worship (not least) obey as Her permanent slave on a daily basis.
I am a single, genuine lifestyle submissive living in Leicester city centre. I seek to offer a lifetime commitment of accepting the will of my Mistress rather than simple fantasy play and hope to find someone who wants a LTR with bdsm as part of the whole relationship not separate to it. BDSM to me is more about obedience, control and servitude rather than theatrics and play scenarios and I am looking for a relationship where the power exchange extends well beyond the bedroom. What I really seek is a domestic discipline arrangement where rules, structure and punishment play a significant part. Above all I am looking for someone with whom I have common interests, a friend as well as a Mistress /Owner.
I would love to have the opportunity of a 24/7 position (or as near as normal day to day activities will allow) with a Mistress who is happy with taking control of the relationship and who genuinely enjoys owning a slave. I accept that 24/7 D/s is possible but 24/7 play is not. I am caring, tactile (when allowed to be), can hold a conversation (again when allowed) enjoy the sea, sand sun and a glass (or two) of red wine. I am single, reasonably successful, intelligent, loyal, deeply submissive and willing to become the lifetime property of my Mistress.
I recognise that we are all different and that individual Mistress' have their own desires, needs and expectations in terms of service delivery and obedience. I am very willing to receive training in order to be taught to please to the best of my abilities and to Your complete satisfaction.
Whilst I am seeking my Mistress / soulmate, it may be that She does not live alone. I am willing to serve within a poly type environment under my owners control and guidance and to serve others or in front of others if required.
I understand the concept of end chastity and orgasm control / tease denial. For me, being locked in chastity with my sexual release being determined by my owner is a very intimate form of control. I would, therefore, wholeheartedly and without reservation, submit to wearing a secure locking chastity device on a permanent basis as a condition of my service / ownership.
I am willing also to accept d feminization / sissification and to be cuckolded if required. I also accept that it is the right of my Mistress to place me in bondage, chain cage me should She so desire. I have little experience of cages/caging/imprisonment, but this is an area I would be interested in exploring.
I am not a slut (perhaps more experienced in the area of ), but I fully accept the right of my owner to inflict physical discipline either for corrective purposes or simply for Her pleasure and amusement and at Her whim.
I am domestically trained, cleaning, washing, ironing etc. and seek a Lady who understands that my obedience will come from her control. A Lady that will turn my natural submission into my total devotion to her by owning my mind soul as well as my body. I recognise that such feelings are developed over time and that is why i would prefer a long term Mistress / slave relationship.
I hope that i am not being too idealistic and that there is a Lady out there who i can love, adore, serve, honour, worship, cherish and obey as Her permanent slave.
