DeSade9445

Male (57) Not single

Carpe dien.

It would appear I may actually have Dom tendencies that I didn’t really identify. I am not a sadist, I think I teeter somewhere between Daddy and Sir, but I probably prefer Sir. I feel I will be more of a nurturing Dom but I am very much a work in progress. I would like to learn with somebody and develop together. So I am not experienced in the dynamic, but I am experienced in life.

I have a dark kink, so sue me. And just to make it abundantly clear, fetishes aside, I am articulate, I have a sense of humour and I like all of the normal stuff like cuddling and intimacy. I am extremely tactile and very respectful. Essentially my kink persona is the diametric opposite of everyday me. I am a living, breathing juxtaposition. I dropped off the radar, because I saw a bit of an influx of judgemental sorts, judging other people’s fetish, on a fetish site.

In literary terms I am a mixture. I can be classically romantic, like Mr Darcy. Conversely I can be dark and brooding like Heathcliff. I can flip between one and the other. Classically romantic to dark, gothic romance which can be very intense.

I keep my pictures anonymous, there is one of my face in my secret gallery though.

Carpe dien.

Kinky Date20 to 55 years ● 5km around UK, Northampton