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Female (58) Single
In any relationship, honesty and good communication are very important to me, as are respect and
I very much enjoy social events such as munches and love to meet new people. I have some very good friends on the scene and am extremely grateful to them for their support and companionship.
With regards to kink, I am quite old school. I like protocol and ritual, and I suppose my primary tendency is towards submission rather than masochism or being a brat.
I can be quite sensitive- so not keen, for example, on being mocked, or punished for expressing emotion. I enjoy restraint, verbal ***, light cp, role play such as nun and priest play and some medical fetish. I am also quite sensual and have more than a touch of the exhibitionist and slut.
I suppose for me submission is not just sessional and ideally I would like direction and protection outside of play. I am seeking meaningful relationships.
I feel that I am not really monogamous at present and am open to being lent out from a primary relationship, or in other forms of polyamory.
Kink and bdsm for me are at their richest when coupled with a willingness to explore safely the hidden side of our nature. I feel this can only happen from a position of openness and trust. For me, bdsm can be likened to a fairy tale from Grimm or Hans Christian Andersen, where beauty and sinister cruelty coexist.
In my vanilla life I like music, in particular classical, and am interested in politics and ideas. I am quite left wing, and possibly a bit of a hippy.