NOT LOOKING FOR HOOK UPS.
Also, I won't communicate with guys unless we're talking about a possible LTR. Thank you.
Okay, moving on...😉
I'm hoping to date a fantastic man who wants a LTR that includes over the top sex. I am definitely not desperate nor in a rush. But I'd like to find a loving, compatible, LTR of some sort. Only looking on Fet because I like kink so much. I don't know how to meet that kind of man in the vanilla world.
About Me:
-A happy person, conscientious and responsible, but fun and relaxation are also priorities.
-Very high sex drive. I love romantic sex, rough sex, all kinds. Sex is very important to me. I have some flexibility about how sex in a LTR might go, as long as it's not just vanilla.
--I have been in long-term monogamous relationships for most of my adult life. I can be faithful and honest. I honor my agreements. I have integrity.
-5ft. 5-1/2 and 125#. Slender. Flat stomach.
-Uninhibited, but discreet in daily life.
-I work and have a professional job. I'm not a freeloader. Very well educated and well read.
--I love the mountains and the beach. I love travel, but I'm also a homebody.
-I like meeting new people and group scenes, but I also enjoy my alone time.
-Atheist. Formerly practiced Zen.
-I'm totally committed to a healthy lifestyle. I eat very healthy (plant-based). Almost totally vegan. Would you cook with me?
--I stay active. I love dancing, running, walking, yoga, sometimes indoor rock climbing.
--I'm not a big drinker, but I like a little wine sometimes. Like one glass and I'm done.
-D/d free. Not against pot, but it doesn't interest me. It just makes me feel weird.
-Told I'm pretty. Natural 36D.
-Love to laugh, watch comedy, memes, jokes. I have a good sense of humor.
-Over 50, but going strong. I have no health problems.
--I don't squirt.
-Recently found out I love riding on the back of a Harley and indoor rock climbing.
--I love babies, children and ***s. But I don't want to raise any more kids. My kids are now grown at last. I don't want to put anyone on the school bus, go to IEP meetings, no more Boy Scouts or driving to karate lessons. This is Me Time at last and it includes a lot of crazy sex stuff.
Looking for a man who is:
--Close enough to me that we can date in person. Under 2 hours away for sure.
--Someone who expects to DATE me for a while and build a foundation for a real relationship. I'm not going to start having sex right away, because a friendship of some kind must precede the sex. You and I both know after we start having sex it will be hard to do anything else. So let's start things off right. If you are serious about me you'll do it this way. You can have sex with anyone else you want during that time. I'm not taking your dick hostage.
-Kind and usually happy. Optimistic and agreeable. Slow to anger. And a giving nature, because I'm very giving.
-On the extroverted side, confident, friendly, hopefully has at least a couple good friends.
-Honest. Has a strong sense of integrity.
-Good communication skills.
-Hyper-sexual or has an above average sex drive! This is a must. Long lasting and sometimes enjoys sex marathons, or generally you have a very good sex drive.
-Be in your late 40's, 50's, and looking good. Over 60, you must be unusually active and fit for your age.
-FIT and healthy at any age is a must. Chubby won't cut it.
-Intelligent. Formal education is less important than being smart, well read and successful.
-Successful career = you like your work and can pay your bills.
-Adventurous! Open to new experiences.
-Affectionate, kisses, snuggles, can fall in love.
-SINGLE. Divorced. Not currently living with a spouse or girl-friend for any reason. I repeat, if you are living with a woman for any reason, then I won't date you!
-Sense of humor
-Above average penis size. At least 7.
-Interested in a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. Obviously we don't know if it will work out, but do you want that if you meet the right person? Might not be marriage, but you want us to live together in a LTR for the rest of our lives.
-Probably okay with including, but limiting, sexual contact with others outside of our relationship once it's serious. I'd do monogamy again with the right person. But it doesn't have to be that. I don't want to be permanently stuck in that again.
-I'm very okay with bisexual men.
-Prefer someone more Dom than sub, but not a deal breaker. I like switches, since I'm a switch. Would do LTR with a masculine sub male.
--Not into having a Daddy at all! Zero interest in age play.
If your greatest joy is fucking lots of different people, then we aren't going to get along. I don't want a LTR with someone who always needs sex with a lot of other men/women in order to be happy.
I'm still legally married, but we aren't having sex. Separated in the same house. It's a complicated due to finances. We aren't fighting. No drama. He knows I'm seeing others. So is he. I KNOW I'm ready to go if the right person is here and we have a strong relationship.
I would relocate for the right person. Hopefully someone within a couple hours of me, because I have strong ties to my kids. Dating long distance is also very hard. If you have ideas about how to do it...
I am free and clear to date, travel and do things when I want as I am not cheating. If a man has to lie or hide me from people, then I'm not interested in dating. I'm not going to date someone and hope he'll leave his wife or wait for his children to accept me. Do you own your life or not?
I'm in SE PA. Nearby places include Coatesville, Philly, Allentown, Lancaster, Reading, York, Hershey, Harrisburg, etc.
I don't think I'm perfect. I'm not looking for perfect. I realize I'm looking for the proverbial needle in the hay stack. Is that you?
I have plenty more photos of myself that I'll gladly share if you and I are thinking we'd like to meet. Please have plenty of recent photos of you, too. (Lots of guys get mad when I want to see more than two pix.) And have a wonderful day!
