I am a dom who has had two great relationships that were DDLG intertwined with BDSM. I really enjoyed and found both of those long term relationships rewarding. I even lived with my last one for an entire year in my house and were rather happy. I am looking for a submissive girl who is interested in a monogamous longterm relationship. I am ok with or without the DDLG component. For me the biggest satisfaction is having one girl who submits to me and obeys me. If this works out I would like to live together eventually. My job is in IT consulting for free, so a perk for my sub is free IT support LOL. But I also have regular hours so it should be fairly easy to commit to some kind of schedule for us over time.