I know you’re a sub, but honestly, in a situation like that... especially if the relationship was built around other dynamics and you’re trying to slowly spice up the intimate side... I’d probably take control in a more gentle, guiding way at first. Like telling my partner what to say or do, Read more… helping lead them into that confidence instead of throwing them into the deep end. Over time, I’d slowly let them take more control so they can ease into the new territory naturally. Eventually, you’ll get to a point where you can fully submit because they’ll start recognizing how your body reacts to their confidence, and they’ll genuinely want to take charge on their own.