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missgigi find out what exactly about BDSM is you like, obv it’s not Vanilla so the actually components of what BDSM stands for will need to turn you on FIRST. As it’s not necessarily “pain” per se but it’s not the pleasure you’re use to in the Vanilla world. find out what exactly about BDSM is you like, obv it’s not Vanilla so the actually components of what BDSM stands for will need to turn you on FIRST. As it’s not necessarily “pain” per se but it’s not the pleasure you’re use to in the Vanilla world.

Leisa Research is always a great place to start. Once something within the initial research foray catches your attention, do more research on that specific topic. BDSM is not all about pain. It’s more about the connection that develops. It may or may not involve pain. I think by hardcore sex you may mean rough sex? If that’s your kink then definitely research. The ultimate goal should be to enjoy yourselves as you develop the dynamics of your relationship but Rea search may help you avoid injury. Research is always a great place to start. Once something within the initial research foray catches your attention, do more research on that specific topic. BDSM is not all about pain. It’s more about the connection that develops. It may or may not involve pain. I think by hardcore sex you may mean rough sex? If that’s your kink then definitely research. The ultimate goal should be to enjoy yourselves as you develop the dynamics of your relationship but Rea search may help you avoid injury.