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Where to start. I have been in the lifestyle for 2 years. My master and I keep changeing dynamics to see what works. I still feel like I am doing something wrong at times cause of how I was brought up. Any advice would be welcomed. We are now on ##Certain words (e.g. contact details or terms we don’t allow in our community) are on our blacklist. If you use one of these, it will automatically be replaced with this message.## .com. We are posting videos of our every day life as a M/s couple. Everything from punishment to pleasure. If intrested check it out. You can also reach out on kik at nerdcouple1988
Desires and Fantasies
I love to be beat on and see bruises after. I also love to be spanked. My fantasy is to be ***ed on and to be fucked and humiliated in public.
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If u want more advice i am happy to answer.
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I went from being a sub to a slave and I love it. It was not easy but worth it. I gave up all my rights to my master.
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Where to start. I have been in the lifestyle for 2 years. My master and I keep changeing dynamics to see what works. I still feel like I am doing something wrong at times cause of how I was brought up. Any advice would be welcomed. We are now on ***.com. We are posting videos of our every day life Read more…
as a M/s couple. Everything from punishment to pleasure. If intrested check it out. You can also reach out on kik at nerdcouple1988
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Submissive
100% Brat
100% Slave
100% Masochist
100% Rope bunny
99% Degradee
87% Experimentalist
71% Exhibitionist
62% Voyeur
61% Primal (Prey)
55% Non-monogamist
44% Pet
4% Boy/Girl
1% Daddy/Mommy
1% Brat tamer
1% Vanilla
0% Ageplayer
0% Primal (Hunter)
0% Rigger
0% Dominant
0% Degrader
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
0% Sadist
0% Switch
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Submissive
100% Brat
100% Slave
100% Masochist
100% Rope bunny
99% Degradee
87% Experimentalist
71% Exhibitionist
62% Voyeur
61% Primal (Prey)
55% Non-monogamist
44% Pet
4% Boy/Girl
1% Daddy/Mommy
1% Brat tamer
1% Vanilla
0% Ageplayer
0% Primal (Hunter)
0% Rigger
0% Dominant
0% Degrader
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
0% Sadist
0% Switch
Where to start. I have been in the lifestyle for 2 years. My master and I keep changeing dynamics to see what works. I still feel like I am doing something wrong at times cause of how I was brought up. Any advice would be welcomed. We are now on ***.com. We are posting videos of our every day life Read more…
as a M/s couple. Everything from punishment to pleasure. If intrested check it out. You can also reach out on kik at nerdcouple1988
Advice on Guilt
Does anyone else ever feel like they are doing something wrong? I was brought up in a conservative household where none if this would be accepted. How do you get around it?
Deleted profile I’ve never personally felt like I’ve been doing something wrong, however I have seen it in other people. It’s usually rooted in the way they grew up, with the mixing up *** and bdsm (the you should never hit a woman teaching).
There is a lot of good information out there about the difference Read more… between *** and bdsm - my favourite simple saying is 1,000 words will not stop *** but one safeword will stop bdsm.
Another friend felt guilt in her bdsm relationship because she enjoyed *** play. She had identified as a feminist and felt she was disrespecting feminism for enjoying it. In her case she needed to flip her thoughts around. The feminist movement is a fight for the right to freely choose what you want as a woman. That choice includes the choice to hand control over to another.
There’s probably a dozen other reasons someone could feel guilt in bdsm, but if you think your guilt may be associated with the perception that bdsm is abusive, spend time analysing how a consensual adult negotiated relationship, where you are respected and heard, is different from what your guilt is trying to make you believe. Good luck.
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There is a lot of good information out there about the difference Read more… between *** and bdsm - my favourite simple saying is 1,000 words will not stop *** but one safeword will stop bdsm.
Another friend felt guilt in her bdsm relationship because she enjoyed *** play. She had identified as a feminist and felt she was disrespecting feminism for enjoying it. In her case she needed to flip her thoughts around. The feminist movement is a fight for the right to freely choose what you want as a woman. That choice includes the choice to hand control over to another.
There’s probably a dozen other reasons someone could feel guilt in bdsm, but if you think your guilt may be associated with the perception that bdsm is abusive, spend time analysing how a consensual adult negotiated relationship, where you are respected and heard, is different from what your guilt is trying to make you believe. Good luck.
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09.04.2018 13:16:43
Deleted profile If your enjoying what you do then its not wrong for you. So shouldnt feel guilty If your enjoying what you do then its not wrong for you. So shouldnt feel guilty
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09.04.2018 10:48:31
callipygian I am always doing something wrong - that is life, living and learning
People are brought up differently all over the world - just because you are brought up one way doesn't mean 'you' arent able to change and that change or that being different is not correct.
I am always doing something wrong - that is life, living and learning
People are brought up differently all over the world - just because you are brought up one way doesn't mean 'you' arent able to change and that change or that being different is not correct.
People are brought up differently all over the world - just because you are brought up one way doesn't mean 'you' arent able to change and that change or that being different is not correct.
I am always doing something wrong - that is life, living and learning
People are brought up differently all over the world - just because you are brought up one way doesn't mean 'you' arent able to change and that change or that being different is not correct.
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· 09.04.2018 10:20:27
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