About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- LTR (relationship)
- NSA (no strings...)
- Swingers
Description
Please note that this is NOT a hookup site for me. If you are looking for that, do not message me. Also, politics are important to me, so if you are conservative/tRumptard, then you are NOT someone I want to know. I am here for like-minderd friends and maybe an LTR, if that's even possible. I am bisexual so "both sides of the coin" are accepted. Age and distance matters, and I will look at the profile for these things. I am a sub in the bedroom ONLY. i do not want a 24/7 lifestyle, and I most certainly do not want to be called names in the messages that I get. And aspects of sub life in bedroom appeal, others do not. I don't know where I fall here, but I'm open to seeing where it takes me as I rediscover what I need/want out of life.
My roles & archetype
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I have a twofold reason. I need/want a relationship that's more than plain vanilla and that's hard to say on regular sites. So i was hoping to maybe find someone close to me. But i also like to learn about others with the same needs as myself and conversely, to know the opposite of what I need so i Read more… can give what they need. So a relationship and friends is what I want from here.
No. I wouldn't want a man to do this to my breasts/other body parts so i would not do it to them. However, if it was an agreed upon act, like role playing in a bar or social scene, then yes I would.
This!! Every word of this is spot on and should be mandatory reading for anyone who checks the "dom" box on here. First messages should not be along the lines of "be my pussy slave" (actual message I've gotten twice).
p.s. your accent bled through that post and hope it's appropriate to say Read more… was...hot.
I've gotten them too. Here and on dating apps. Unfortunately its pretty standard to get messages from ppl who don't read the profile or make an effort.
So, do what your doing now, continue putting yourself out there, building contacts and trust with the members, and eventually select Safe Sane partners who will understand your concerns about activities and levels, and with Consensual decision making, try out various things. Get a feel for them and see if they flick the switch for you. Some activities you might have to try 2 or three times before you make a firm decision on whether they are likes and dislikes.
So as your journey train leaves the station, if I was you, I would be looking for a sort of dominant FWB type who will work through the physical with you. Think back to teenage years when you began exploring and experimenting with sex, only your a big girl now and so your now in a different league. There are many here to chat to about things, and should you have questions, simply ask. At least you have an in with your bratty type behaviour, and your like for primal type activities, so work from there. Enjoy your time here and in this life. Oh the final thing to say to you is, progress at your comfort rate whilst your getting started.
this is probably possible, since the bottom is the one who gets penetrated there is nothing to prevent a dominant from doiung the usual D/s things and then ordering the sub to mount them if the Dominant derives sexual pleasure from being penetrated, they would still be a Dominant but at that moment also a bottom ➦Kymi quote Deleted profile:❝I was debating on the term "domme bottom"❞
this is probably possible, since the bottom is the one who gets penetrated there is nothing to prevent a dominant from doiung the usual D/s things and then ordering the sub to mount them if the Dominant derives sexual pleasure from being penetrated, they would still be a Dominant but at that moment also a bottom