I enjoy life and am looking for a submissive woman to share the adventure with.
I am married that is open. My wife is A sexual meaning she has very little to no interest in sex. I however am what you might call hyper sexual. if you want to know what I mean by that just ask. if you want to talk to here ti check what I am saying you will need to message me first as she doesn't have a profile here abd would need to set one up.
If you're not interested in the lifestyle we probably won't connect on an intimate level, but we can still be friends.
not interested in men at all or if you were a man. don't bother contacting me. I will block and delete.
don't ask me to go chat on another platform until we start to click. I have spent to much time doing that early and then being asked for ##Certain words (e.g. contact details or terms we don’t allow in our community) are on our blacklist. If you use one of these, it will automatically be replaced with this message.## .
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So I am missing numbers 2 and 6. Any clues? Or anyone willing to send them?
How can anyone find all of them already when one doesn't hit until tomorrow?
Though you said you wanted help and info, then refused to read it - so I guess you can struggle through singledom you are choosing to return to the thread *shrug* and while you might not take any notice and go nowhere, if someone else reads and benefits then it's for their benefit rather than yours. It's not all about you.
Though you said you wanted help and info, then refused to read it - so I guess you can struggle through singledom
But most don't reach out. Cos that flags a lot of systems. So most wait and let people come to them. So if you sign up and message a lot of people... why the 'real' people don't reply can be many reasons including the quality of your message, they haven't been online, that they're just not interested, or they've seen your forum posts, however - yeah, the scammers ALWAYS reply
Like, as well - if your current position is "I'm new, I don't know what I want, help/teach me" - there's nothing wrong with wanting to explore but a lot of people will see you as being extra work, or feel they are being treat as an experiment, which is less desirable with someone who is a stranger. The whole online dating thing is hard, but there's stuff which ends up making things harder.
Perhaps at the minute taking time to learn and slowly make friends might suit you more.
And I guess that is also transferable to anyone who is new, curious, etc. focus on friends and slowly learning in your own space rather than making your curiousity someone else's problem
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As I said, stop bothering people. 👍👋 I’m not reading that 💀
This was the type of person folk like Laycette, and myself, and others were referring to. And yes, they don't belong within the community.
This isn't for people who are genuinely curious, or exploring or interested in learning to take offence to. Like, getting overly defensive when you should be able to see this isn't you (or, maybe it is? I dunno) sounds like a problem with your own insecurities rather than anything else and something you may need to work on.
➦eyemblacksheep quote pcnoob:❝a literal website for outcasts❞Fetish communities aren't "outcasts" - it's not a protected charecteristic and while there are risks associated with the lifestyle, most folk are, well, "regular people"
As you are also a cis het white dude, you're not an outcast either - even it feels like you don't fit in - the question is then why don't you fit in to other places? As much as that might suck - the "find your people" might not be here. It also for the sake of spelling it out, MIGHT be here, but honestly if you're having problems connecting with people you might need to look inwards.
➦eyemblacksheep quote pcnoob:❝my experience has been fake accounts❞Which I can also sympathise with, and yep, on one hand fake accounts are a huge issue on all dating-based sites unfortunately. I very rarely get contacted by fakes/scammers - usually one every few months. I feel of course they are more likely to target someone new/naive because of course if someone hasn't had time to learn some basics then someone offering them the world for a price can be pickings.
But most don't reach out. Cos that flags a lot of systems. So most wait and let people come to them. So if you sign up and message a lot of people... why the 'real' people don't reply can be many reasons including the quality of your message, they haven't been online, that they're just not interested, or they've seen your forum posts, however - yeah, the scammers ALWAYS reply
Like, as well - if your current position is "I'm new, I don't know what I want, help/teach me" - there's nothing wrong with wanting to explore but a lot of people will see you as being extra work, or feel they are being treat as an experiment, which is less desirable with someone who is a stranger. The whole online dating thing is hard, but there's stuff which ends up making things harder.
Perhaps at the minute taking time to learn and slowly make friends might suit you more.
And I guess that is also transferable to anyone who is new, curious, etc. focus on friends and slowly learning in your own space rather than making your curiousity someone else's problem