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Yes I am single. No i am not looking for a Dom, a Master or a Daddy
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I am seriously uncomfortable with this person. He wants to take it slow, yet he announced you as his slave without discussing this with. That is bad in so many ways to me. One, sub and slave are 2 very different things. Are you really ok giving up total control to someone e who hasn't met you Read more… in person, didn't ask you about it and therefore he hasn't discussed any limits safe words etc and you feel it is safe to do so? Run away
For the Doms, do you accept limits and if so is your expectation to just accept them, work your sub through them or breakdown your sub?
I am a sub, I am not weak or a pushover. I have limits and Read more…some of then are hard limits. The hard limits are just that, they are off the table for me and will remain that way until I make the decision to work through them.
Recently in a relationship, hard limit of no threesomes accepted (especially with a woman). We had a wonderful time getting to know each other and experienced a wonderful day of playing.
After a return from vacation the topic of being with a woman was brought up again and I was told this was a deal breaker. I was shocked and hurt to say the least because my hard limit was accepted.
Stupidly I agree to at least talk to other women and see. Each night we talked about it ended in tears and the one woman he asked me to talk with also ended in tears and panic attacks (not fun at all).
Now the relationship is over. I guess I am saying to those Doms that take limits lightly, dont. They are there for a reason and it isnt up to you to make the decisions for us. This is also why I will never become a slave and give someone complete and utter control of me. I was working in my control issues that were caused by abuse and getting much better with them. Well guess what, they are back and worse than ever because one Dom refused to respect my choice and has now damaged me more into accepting and trusting another Dom.
In the London rope scene people have no issues discussing boundaries and call out when enough has been reached regardless of age or role. Maybe it is the kink you are into.
In the London rope scene people have no issues discussing boundaries and call out when enough has been reached regardless of age or role.
Ohhhhh go get him sub. You got this. Win that game
well done Cade
This is something I had issues with in some ways and release in another.
Whatbhas worked for me is starting in the bedroom. I found giving up a little control at a time was such a relief. For once I didn’t have to worry about something or make a decision. I could sit, or lay, or bend into a Read more… position and let it happen. I knew I was safe and I didn’t have to worry about my hard limits and my body and mind would relax. I could finally be at peace and at one with myself and through the pain I would find the pleasure because that is all I could and needed to focus at at the time.
I still struggle outside the bedroom in relation to giving up control. The proper Dom will teach, guide and direct you. Be honest with them and ask lots of questions. Make you know you limits (yes there are non sexual ones) and they are aware of them. Also ask. A good Dom will tell you why it is important to them and will work with you to get there.
Key is always Communication and Trust
Always amazing and deep. These roads so many of us have travelled are but the same. I believe we have all come together to help each of us heal and grow
she slips quietly in, through misty blue and purple waves
those that are drawn into the energy she emits, calm, healing yet aching on display for those to see
aching for the kiss of a whip, the pain searing through her to carry her away in a mist of pain and pleasure
lady_hara awaits her Master Read more… as she bows in blissful submission
We have been through the same experience from the past Fire. I am so happy that you have found a Sir that understands, helps and supports you in your recovery
Wow. I never thought of it like that but it’s true. Whether it is being instructed online or dominated (once so far) it made me forget everything else. I was only there in that moment whether it was the pain or the pleasure I felt it was the only thing I felt. It allows you to feel only what you Read more… want and ask to feel which in itself allows you to release the other shit piling up inside.