Anyone here into the more ritual / intentional side of kink?
I’ve been exploring Shamanic Kink for a while - the intersection of BDSM, ritual, embodiment, archetypes, and conscious power exchange. It’s less about adding more “stuff” to a scene and more about paying attention to what’s happening underneath it.
I’m helping with a 7-day Shamanic Kink Immersion in Upstate NY this September. People are coming from the West Coast and Europe for it, so if you’re in New England, you basically have the luxury of just driving there.
It’s 7 days, all included - food, accommodation, workshops, practices, community, and plenty of time to explore.
Curious if anyone here has explored this side of kink before. Would love to meet some New England folks there
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Is BDSM still BDSM when you take away the sex?
I've been thinking about this lately:
A lot of what makes a BDSM scene powerful isn't necessarily the sexual part. It's attention, power, surrender, anticipation, trust, sensation, roles, ritual, the weird little things that can happen between two people when they're really present.
So where does Read more…BDSM end and something else begin?
Can a scene be genuinely transformative without being sexual? Or does taking the sex out of it change the nature of kink completely?
I'm interested in how other people experience this, especially those who use kink for something beyond getting off.
A lot of what makes a BDSM scene powerful isn't necessarily the sexual part. It's attention, power, surrender, anticipation, trust, sensation, roles, ritual, the weird little things that can happen between two people when they're really present.
So where does Read more…BDSM end and something else begin?
Can a scene be genuinely transformative without being sexual? Or does taking the sex out of it change the nature of kink completely?
I'm interested in how other people experience this, especially those who use kink for something beyond getting off.
Likemascellaneous, MadsMs007, costa-mesa86654and 126 more… · 67 Replies
Searching4Unicorn Every body is different. For me BDSM is best when the dom pampers and protects outside of playtime/following. Otherwise I feel used eventually. Love when he a me a slut first and a good girl when pleasing with passion while firmly spanking. Ties me up and makes me beg. Gagging/deep throating makes Read more… me squirt a little. With my man I have no desire to be dom. With my gf I enjoy both depending on mood. I eventually want to trust her enough to share my husband performing anal and me degrade talking/coaching and being orally satiated.
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· 10.10.2026 1:07:19
Bootysmacker Most people think bdsm is mostly sex and even people not all in this life style. I couldn’t find way to correct first post Most people think bdsm is mostly sex and even people not all in this life style. I couldn’t find way to correct first post
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· 09.10.2026 1:58:55
Bootysmacker Most people think even that think there apart of the type life style. But there many things besides sex. There things like protection and that dynamic depends as well of the collar or littles and daddy’s are examples and non have to be sexual same with being a servant services Most people think even that think there apart of the type life style. But there many things besides sex. There things like protection and that dynamic depends as well of the collar or littles and daddy’s are examples and non have to be sexual same with being a servant services
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· 09.10.2026 1:56:41
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