They dont call it Dom(me) Depot for nothing 😁 Go to the orange store & walk around. Paint stir sticks, rope, zip ties, cord, tape,.plastic wrap, brushes, fans, burlap, hooks, eye bolts, s-hooks, wench, chain of various thicknesses,
Dillar tree can be kinky if you let your brain go there.

It's called a g-spot orgasm. Supposedly everyone can have them. 2 fingers center along the spongy part, it arches back. Fingers do need to be pretty long. G spot hides back there. Straight line from clit in some, angled in others. GYN told me women with tipped uterus have them easier.

Just clarifying....you've had sex, just missionary church sex that was unappealing? I would start with a bdsm checklist (old but still floating around the net) & check off what you've done. What sounds interesting & what after reading Google, makes your skin crawl. You have now established Read more… hard limits ( the ick stuff ) & what you have some interest in. Go from there.
Google your city and munch. This is a street clothes on casual cocktail party of dirty minded folk. Way to meet locals. Between that & your list you have a general direction to grow from.
Oh & every dick swinger that calls themself dom doesnt get to boss you around. Until you agree to a relationship, you own no one anything sexual

This makes me think an online journal might be a good option . Several of the personal questions posed can be answered here for you to read privately. Also a place for her to go deeper into positive & negative experiences her time "due by Tuesday". Creates request, & deadline but not Read more… pressure to unpack deep wounds quickly.

Lots of good advice, I'm going one step farther. Meet in person to ensure this a) is a woman, b) of legal consensual age, c) that you would be attracted to with clothes on, d) that you have non-sexual things in common with e) not attached to uninformed partners
One this criteria is met then & Read more… only then, start investing the hard work. Also look up topping from the bottom...if you become everything she says she wants It can get you dumped.
Dont play on the first visit. This is about learning the habits needs & issues of a sub

Only ones without safe words I've ever met were a married trio of 3 decades (both gotten slaves) & ever wanker do-me that dreamed in shades of grey