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Gender Trans
Age 36
Status Not single
Height 175cm
Weight 9kg
Body shape Plus-size
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Short
Orientation Bisexual
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Part shaved
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac sign Pisces
Glasses
Tattoos
Piercings
Disability

About me

I’m looking for:

Description

🚫if you identify as cishet, you're barking up the wrong tree🚫
!I have zero interest in straight men!

small tdick // big ass // fat // brat // sub
this is a baby boy zone
fat is not a bad word
I write erotica to get me wet

hello and welcome! my name is Jay c:
i'm 36, and i live in the UK with my partner.
i'm pansexual. i'm a non-binary transman. if you have any questions about what any of that means, feel free to ask!
i am non-monogomous, but it's up to me to decide who with and when, not you.
my pronouns are he/they, so please refrain from referring to me with overly feminine petnames.

my biggest kinks are being restrained and whipped/spanked/caned/flogged.
i'm hoping to expand into f*rced orgasms/orgasm denial, and the like.

i'm generally friendly and easy going, unless given a reason to not be.
i'm happy to answer any and all DMs i receive, so don't be shy!
i'm also way less experienced than i make out that i am, so don't be surprised when i tell you what i have and haven't actually done.
i've got a dirty mind, and want to try some dirty things.
if you don't have the patience for that, kindly move on.
i'm not here to take anybody's bullshit, and i'll tell you that much.
i'm also not here for casual/random hookups. i don't trust anybody upon first meeting.

How about a little breakdown of the non-kink things I enjoy?
reading | writing | cross-stitch | video games | photography | horror movies/games | true crime | the beach | metal & rock music | good food | being warm | coffee | taking naps | being looked after | autumn | freshly fallen snow | the smell of new books | the smell of warm bunnies | stepping inside on a windy day | the outside smell | birds

Limits

being misgendered, breeding, diapers, enemas, face slapping, facesitting, fisting, leather, piggy, toilet, urethral fucking, urethral sounds, waterboarding, watersports, being referred to as baby boy or anything similar by people more than 10 years younger than me 😬

My roles & archetype

My kinks & fetishes

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TransBear-
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  • 11.12.2025 20:24:05
  • Trans (36)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
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TransBear-
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  • 06.12.2025 0:30:16
  • Trans (36)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
🚫if you identify as cishet, you're barking up the wrong tree🚫
!I have zero interest in straight men!

small tdick // big ass // fat // brat // sub
this is a baby boy zone
fat is not a bad word
I write erotica to get me wet

hello and welcome! my name is Jay c:
i'm 36, and i live in the UK with my Read more… partner.
i'm pansexual. i'm a non-binary transman. if you have any questions about what any of that means, feel free to ask!
i am non-monogomous, but it's up to me to decide who with and when, not you.
my pronouns are he/they, so please refrain from referring to me with overly feminine petnames.

my biggest kinks are being restrained and whipped/spanked/caned/flogged.
i'm hoping to expand into f*rced orgasms/orgasm denial, and the like.

i'm generally friendly and easy going, unless given a reason to not be.
i'm happy to answer any and all DMs i receive, so don't be shy!
i'm also way less experienced than i make out that i am, so don't be surprised when i tell you what i have and haven't actually done.
i've got a dirty mind, and want to try some dirty things.
if you don't have the patience for that, kindly move on.
i'm not here to take anybody's bullshit, and i'll tell you that much.
i'm also not here for casual/random hookups. i don't trust anybody upon first meeting.

How about a little breakdown of the non-kink things I enjoy?
reading | writing | cross-stitch | video games | photography | horror movies/games | true crime | the beach | metal & rock music | good food | being warm | coffee | taking naps | being looked after | autumn | freshly fallen snow | the smell of new books | the smell of warm bunnies | stepping inside on a windy day | the outside smell | birds
TransBear-
icon-wio TransBear- posted a status update
  • 06.12.2025 0:17:33
  • Trans (36)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
🎶got a plug in my butt, and I wanna be a slut, but I'm here all alone in my bed🎶
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TransBear-
icon-wio TransBear- posted a status update
  • 05.12.2025 13:19:31
  • Trans (36)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
Didn't get round to that much needed stress relief the other night. Sick of having to do it myself all the time. Need someone to talk me through it :p
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  • 03.12.2025 12:25:29
  • Trans (36)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
TransBear-
icon-wio TransBear- posted a status update
  • 02.12.2025 17:49:36
  • Trans (36)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
Ya boy needs some serious stress relief today, ho-ly.
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  • 21.11.2025 22:57:46
  • Trans (36)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
First plugged up night in November
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TransBear-
icon-wio TransBear- posted a status update
  • 21.11.2025 22:15:41
  • Trans (36)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
Getting in the shower soon. Who wants to join me? 😉
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icon-wio TransBear- posted a status update
  • 21.11.2025 21:31:23
  • Trans (36)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
I think I deserve a slow, deep, self fuck tonight. It's been a long week, I wrote some smut earlier, and I'm horny as all hell.
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A Chance Encounter
*This is a work of fiction.*
I don't even remember how, or where, we met. All I know is we had a vibe immediately. As soon as we locked eyes, there was a spark. I gave him a smile, my cheeks flushing. He returned the gesture, adding in a wink. And that was it; at least for then.
It had been a hell Read more…of a long week, and I was so ready to just cut loose and chill. I even headed straight to the bar as soon as I finished work, fully expecting to be greeted by the friends I had made plans with. But when I arrived, there was nobody at the bar I recognised. I looked around the room, and nothing. Not letting it get to me and ruin my mood, I stepped up to the counter and ordered several drinks. All for myself, of course. When prompted I went to hand over my card, when someone cut across me, holding theirs out.
"On me."
I looked round, thinking for a moment it was one of my friends, paying by way of apology for being late. But no; it was the guy!
"Oh, thank you!"
He sat with me then and we started talking. I hadn't even finished my first drink when he set his hand on my knee, gently stroking with his fingers as he listened to me talking. I didn't waste the opportunity at all and returned the gesture in kind, touching his arm as much as I was able to. About midway through drink number two it was more than obvious that we wanted each other. I leaned in to him.
"Follow me in like, thirty seconds."
I gave him a very quick kiss on his cheek before I slid off my stool and headed for the toilets. It was just enough time for him to see which stall I stepped in to, and as soon as the other guy left the toilets, he knocked. I let him in, pushing him round so I could close the door. I think he went in for a kiss, but I sank to my knees as soon as the stall was locked.
"Shit, man..."
He watched as I unfastened his jeans and freed his cock before taking it in my mouth. Feeling a cock grow hard in my mouth was so arousing, and as I worked on his shaft it pulsated in my mouth. I was soon throating it, trying to be as quiet as I could. I gripped his jeans as I took his cock right down my throat, holding myself there for a few moments before pulling back and gasping. I gathered some of my spit and stroked his cock before taking it back in my mouth again. A few light moans escaped me as I worked on his length, and I was almost certain there was someone in the stall beside ours listening in. But I didn't care; I only had one goal. I kept letting him throat fuck me until he bucked his hips and shot his load in my mouth. I slurped it up eagerly, cleaning off his cock and swallowing every drop. I grinned at him, then got to my feet after tucking himself back in his jeans.
I went to leave, but he grabbed my hand and pulled me close, catching my lips with his. He kissed me deeply, making me moan again. When he broke the kiss I could still feel it.
"You wanna get out of here?"
My eyes widened and I nodded, smiling again. "I don't live far. I'll get us a taxi."
We left the toilets and went back to the bar, finishing our drinks while we waited for the taxi. When it arrived, one of those iconic black cabs, we slipped inside. He sat so close next to me, muttering all the things he wanted to do to me. I was already soaked by that point from our activities in the pub, and it was almost like he knew. He dropped his coat over my lap, glancing at the driver in the rearview mirror before turning his attention back to me. His hand snaked under the coat, finding my trousers. I spread my legs and slid down slightly in the seat. I gasped and had to stifle a moan when he started stroking my tdick with his fingers, gathering my wetness, teasing my throbbing hole. I gripped him tightly when he pushed two fingers into me, my cunt accepting him happily. With the occasional glance at the taxi driver, he started finger fucking me, and boy was it obvious. The wet sounds from the backseat were probably enough to get us banned for life, but the driver seemed to be into it.
When we arrived at my apartment building, I got shakily out of the car first, fumbling with my keys while he paid, and tipped, the driver. I hadn't bothered refastening my trousers so I awkwardly held them up as I opened the front door. He followed after me, pulling me close to kiss me all the way up the stairs. Any chance he got he teased my cunt through my trousers, and by the time we got to my flat, even my underwear was soaked. He all but pushed me into the hallway of the flat, not even waiting for the door to close all the way before he whipped down my trousers and underwear. His cock was already hard when he pulled it out, and he spat on his hand and gave his cock a few strokes as he pushed me against the wall, making me arch my back, spread my legs. The door closed with a click as he pushed his cock deep in my cunt, my wetness helping him glide in easily. I cried out loudly, finally getting the stuffed feeling I'd been waiting for. We stayed like that for a few moments, my cunt gripping his cock, not wanting to let go. But then he started fucking me. My eyes rolled back as I moaned again, feeling him thrusting in and out so deep. He gripped my hips as he started fucking me harder, the full length of his cock sliding in and out. I didn't last long until I came around his cock, my inner walls squeezing, desperately trying to milk out another load.
When my orgasm passed he pulled out of me and, to my surprise, turned me and lifted me up. Carefully, of course, but he hoisted me up under my thighs, raising me and pinning me against the wall, burying his head between my legs. I may have almost heatbutted the ceiling, but all thoughts of that vanished as he started working his tongue against my cunt. I wrapped my legs around him properly, tugging at his hair as he worked. Finding someone willing and able to pick me up was such a turn on. He slurped up my cum, eating my cunt like it was his final meal. The more I pulled on his hair, the more eagerly he licked and sucked. I soon came again, grinding against his tongue. He kissed along my thigh before lowering me back down to the floor. I pulled him into a kiss, walking backwards towards the living room, towards the couch. He sat himself down on it, giving his cock a few strokes as I climbed on top of him. I got myself into position, lined up his cock with my cunt, and sank down on it. Another moan escaped me, his cock filling me perfectly again. I started grinding on his cock as we kissed, tongues clashing. When I started working my hips he let out a moan. I kept fucking him, his cock hitting deep inside me once more. He felt so fucking good, and I was so grateful to whatever cosmic beings had brought us together.
I was getting close again, my cunt pulsing around his cock, when he switched up our positions. I knelt on the couch, him behind me. He gripped the back of the couch as he resumed fucking me, reaching round with his other hand and stroking my tdick. I gripped the back of the couch as well, sometimes burying my face in the cushions to let out a moan. I didn't want my neighbours making a noise complaint, and it was so hard to not just scream obscenities.
"Oh, fuck, your cock feels so good."
"You're so fucking wet for me!"
"I wanna cum on your cock again. I'm so fucking close."
"Mmm, yeah, cum for me. Cum on this dick."
I did so, him burying himself to the hilt and grinding inside me as I rode out my orgasm. I was so wet by then a few drops had landed on the couch. I couldn't remember the last time I'd had such a satisfying fuck. I was so wet and creamy his cock was coated in it. He pulled out and slammed into me a few times, making me cry out with each one, before he started fucking me deep again.
"Oh, fuck, I'm gonna cum..." He gasped, gripping my hips again.
"Yes, cum in me. Fill me up."
"Shit, you sure?"
"Yes! Please! Cum in my cunt."
"Fuck..." He groaned. He fucked into me for a few more moments, each movement growing more and more desperate until he came, crying out loudly, thrusting himself as deep inside me as he could. My cunt pulsed around him, milking his load out of him, draining every last drop. He bucked and twitched as his orgasm passed, and I could tell this load was much bigger than the one at the bar. When he pulled out of me and sat back on the couch I stayed on my knees, spreading my legs a bit more, giving him a full few. I reached a hand between my legs to catch his load as it dripped out of me, then brought it to my mouth and hungrily slurped it down. I sat down then, spreading my legs once more, bringing a hand to my cunt to tease my hole.
"Jeez. You're insatiable."
I giggled at him.
"Where have you been all my life?!"
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  • 15.11.2025 23:16:48
  • Trans (36)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
Goodnight, degenerates 😘
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  • 15.11.2025 18:37:05
  • Trans (36)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
Hi ☺️
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  • 06.11.2025 15:46:45
  • Trans (36)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
I feel like I need to start being more direct with people on here. I don't appreciate being called beautiful y'know. Being hit on by literal ***agers and under 30 year olds gives me the ick.
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