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Gender Trans
Age 37
Status Not single
Height 175cm
Weight 133kg
Body shape Plus-size
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Short
Orientation Bisexual
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Part shaved
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac sign Pisces
Glasses
Tattoos
Piercings
Disability

About me

I’m looking for:

Description

hihi, I'm Jay :3 ✨🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

♂non-binary || transmasc♂ || sub || non-monogamous || in a relationship || autistic

i'm not a woman, not a girl.
not your "babygirl", not your "love/darling/beautiful/baby".
if you're not down with the LGTBQIA+, just leave.
under 30? no thanks, kiddo. sure i'll chat to you, but that's it.
don't ask about meeting. don't ask to trade. don't ask about my relationship.
the answer is no, and none of your business.
my experiences are quite limited.
you'd be surprised how little I've actually done

we are ✔ pro condom ✔ here
find me on fetlife.com: TransBear-

accepting cum tributes ❤️

now that that's out of the way, if you read to this point, start your message with the last thing you had to drink.

i'm generally quite easy going, laid back, and easy to talk to. i'll talk to anybody about almost anything. i consider myself an open book, though there are things i absolutely will not talk about. you can trial and error your way through it, or you can treat me like a human being.

i'm into gaming, writing, reading, consuming as much queer content as i can, getting stupidly excited over small birds, and listening to music.
my favourite genres of tv and movies are horror, thriller, crime, and sci-fi. my music taste is extremely varied, though mostly rock, metal, and 90's pop.
my favourite youtubers are Markiplier, Jacksepticeye and GregBroDudeMan.

as far as kink is concerned, i'm very much a sub (might switch for the right person, but that person definitely isn't you), and i like to be caned/flogged/whipped, etc.

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Limits

being misgendered, breeding, diapers, enemas, face slapping, facesitting, fisting, leather, piggy, toilet, urethral fucking, urethral sounds, sounding, waterboarding, watersports, under 30s, feet :I, "pegging", cuddling -_-

My roles & archetype

My kinks & fetishes

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TransBear-
icon-wio TransBear- wrote something in the forum
  • 26.06.2026 16:52:22
  • Trans (37)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
BORN THIS WAY TREASURE HUNT

Day 19, clue 19: if you need to get something off your chest, someone will hear it

TransBear-
icon-wio TransBear- wrote something in the forum
  • 25.06.2026 19:47:23
  • Trans (37)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
BORN THIS WAY TREASURE HUNT

Day 18, clue 18: if someone doesn't match your vibe, there's ways you can stop them before it's too late

TransBear-
icon-wio TransBear- posted a status update
  • 24.06.2026 19:10:30
  • Trans (37)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
Worst thing about this heat, for me, is how horny I am. But I'm too fucking tired to do anything about it 😩
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TransBear-
icon-wio TransBear- wrote something in the forum
  • 24.06.2026 16:53:27
  • Trans (37)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
BORN THIS WAY TREASURE HUNT

Day 17, clue 17: you know what you want, you just need to get it. It doesn't need to be like finding a needle on a haystack!

TransBear-
icon-wio TransBear- wrote something in the forum
  • 23.06.2026 18:56:22
  • Trans (37)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
BORN THIS WAY TREASURE HUNT

I'm willing to help as best I can! Drop me a DM if you're really stuck ☺️

TransBear-
icon-wio TransBear- wrote something in the forum
  • 23.06.2026 18:53:46
  • Trans (37)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
BORN THIS WAY TREASURE HUNT

Day 16, clue 16: the best things in life are free, *** doesn't buy you happiness...whatever!

TransBear-
icon-wio TransBear- wrote something in the forum
  • 22.06.2026 19:32:01
  • Trans (37)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
BORN THIS WAY TREASURE HUNT

Day 15, clue 15: you could end up going round in circles, but you only have to do it once. Take a gander~

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TransBear-
icon-wio TransBear- wrote something in the forum
  • 21.06.2026 19:24:42
  • Trans (37)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
BORN THIS WAY TREASURE HUNT

Day 14, clue 14: only those you can trust should be able to leave their mark

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TransBear-
icon-wio TransBear- wrote something in the forum
  • 20.06.2026 17:57:34
  • Trans (37)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
BORN THIS WAY TREASURE HUNT

Day 13, clue 13: everyone has at least one, from food, to movies, and everything in-between

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TransBear-
icon-wio TransBear- wrote something in the forum
  • 19.06.2026 13:37:42
  • Trans (37)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
BORN THIS WAY TREASURE HUNT

Day 11, clue 11: it starts differently to where it ends, and where it ends can be wonderful

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icon-wio TransBear- wrote something in the forum
  • 17.06.2026 20:39:44
  • Trans (37)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
BORN THIS WAY TREASURE HUNT

Day 10, clue 10: if they cross a limit, or push a boundary, or give you the ick, you don't have to put up with it. Sometimes the trash takes itself out, but it doesn't help giving it a little nudge

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icon-wio TransBear- wrote something in the forum
  • 16.06.2026 13:50:50
  • Trans (37)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
BORN THIS WAY TREASURE HUNT

Day 9, clue 9: as long as they arrange it with me first, I really don't mind, but showing up out of the blue? No thanks

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icon-wio TransBear- wrote something in the forum
  • 15.06.2026 18:40:23
  • Trans (37)
  • Northfield
  • Not single
BORN THIS WAY TREASURE HUNT

Day 8, clue 8: the more the merrier!

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