I AM NOT SUBMISSIVE AT ALL
I'm a Leatherwoman. I love the ladies, gays, and theys.
I AM PANSEXUAL NOT BISEXUAL BUT THIS PLATFORM ISN'T EVOLVED ENOUGH TO OFFER THAT OPTION
I have been active in the community for over 20 years. I teach classes at Leather Conferences and am mostly known as a Leather Historian.
Understand that if you have no experience, I will know, so don't lie. If you list yourself as a Dominant, It's probably not going anywhere but friendship at best.
Please understanding that if you are a cis male, you are better off being authentic and telling me you just want to hook up rather than making up some weird narrative that I didn't consent to become at this point, my sexual orientation is ABCD (Anything But Cis Dudes) so it will either take the least amount of effort (as in "Hi, I'm interested in hooking up, here's my availability and I won't talk when you grace me with your presence"
or actual effort to display you are worth having a conversation with.
I'm a Domme and a Leatherwoman. I don't switch. I prefer to play with people who have experience. I can also tell if you do or don't through negotiation.
As a demisexual, I'm a whore for the people that end up in a relationship with. Hookup culture hasn't interested me. Hell.. men don't interest me.
HOWEVER, as a woman who is in Cougar Puberty, my desire to enter my 5th ho phase is strong and my demisexuality takes a backseat. Thankfully, there are Read more… no genders in my area that interest me enough to hookup.
I'm a Dominant and a brat, so I would suggest stuff like..
Oh, it would really be punishment if you made me use your credit card to shop for new outfits