Reverse Harem - plausible ENM, or only fictional?

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I have had 2 partners that have lived with me together and were very much brotherly. I have never felt more loved and cared for. I feel that a 3rd would have absolutely evened us out. I know in the books the female main character usually ends up with 5+ but at that point I think it is unrealistic.

Does anyone have this dynamic? How did it happen?

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I was in a bi poly Relationship with a FemDom and her husband for many years. Both of the boys were sub to her and it was very much a Family dynamic with her as the matriarch. It was as close to polyandry as you could get. She had other men come that were sometimes sub but often Bulls for her pleasure as we were often cucked by her.

[ne****]

I wish i had that

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11 hours ago, newark154 said:

I wish i had that

What's stopping you?

[ne****]

Nothing but that woman who would want it

[Sh****]

I have a question: you say you are a sub but want to live in a reverse harem. Does that mean one of the men in your harem is a Dom over you and the other men of the harem?

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Oh..., that's my dream too! I would love to be in a reverse harem, but I know it’s more of a fantasy, haha. As a submissive person, I sometimes imagine having about four dominants🥰 That would be incredibly exciting and would definitely add some spice to the relationship! I’m not really interested in ONS or casual orgies, but being in a relationship like that would feel amazing. Sadly it's hard finding people who are into it and this constellation is quite rare too haha🫠

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6 hours ago, Sharpjab said:

I have a question: you say you are a sub but want to live in a reverse harem. Does that mean one of the men in your harem is a Dom over you and the other men of the harem?

There are different types of dom/top. I am not against MM at all either.

My long term partner is more of a daddy top, he's not Dom at all. He also thinks androgynous men are sexy so if the opportunity presented itself he'd be up for it.

Just because it's RH doesn't mean I would be the domme/top. It can mean that I have a fairly vanilla relationship with one, an extremely rough d/s relationship, a soft top/bottom .... and as along as everyone gets along we can absolutely live in the same house having the same life goals.

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6 hours ago, Nani_bun said:

Oh..., that's my dream too! I would love to be in a reverse harem, but I know it’s more of a fantasy, haha. As a submissive person, I sometimes imagine having about four dominants🥰 That would be incredibly exciting and would definitely add some spice to the relationship! I’m not really interested in ONS or casual orgies, but being in a relationship like that would feel amazing. Sadly it's hard finding people who are into it and this constellation is quite rare too haha🫠

Poly folks, especially kitchen table poly folks, aren't that rare. You can absolutely have that life!

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Friday at 01:00 AM, newark154 said:

Nothing but that woman who would want it

What are you doing to make yourself available and attractive to women who would want you in their RH?

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8 hours ago, arcticdoll said:

There are different types of dom/top. I am not against MM at all either.

My long term partner is more of a daddy top, he's not Dom at all. He also thinks androgynous men are sexy so if the opportunity presented itself he'd be up for it.

Just because it's RH doesn't mean I would be the domme/top. It can mean that I have a fairly vanilla relationship with one, an extremely rough d/s relationship, a soft top/bottom .... and as along as everyone gets along we can absolutely live in the same house having the same life goals.

Yeah that makes sense. The way I read it my mind went to you being a free use/ house whore that could be ordered to gratify your RH members on command and work out a rotation schedule of who’s bed you would share on which night. Thanks for clarifying

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13 hours ago, arcticdoll said:

Poly folks, especially kitchen table poly folks, aren't that rare. You can absolutely have that life!

Huch?? Kitchen table poly folks?👀 Could you maybe explain it more to me in dm's?