In need of advice

[Da****]

Women love the chase bro, once they have caught you the thrill is gone! Women love mystery so you have to allow it to work, she has to question what your doing, never tell a woman everything you think and never tell them what you feel. You never validate her on how she makes you feel!!! Never ever ever acknowledge your feelings. Not even to yourself!!! And I quote this I promise " NEVER SAY THE WORDS I LOVE YOU" NEVERRRRR

[Da****]

And you also need to show her that you have options! Even if you don't!! You better pay a friend or cute relative she doesn't know to play among on a date with you or something along those lines

[Ar****]

6 hours ago, Daddy_Solo_24 said:

And you also need to show her that you have options! Even if you don't!! You better pay a friend or cute relative she doesn't know to play among on a date with you or something along those lines

dunno man, i’m not so sure bout all that🤔

i honestly don’t think playing games like that, which just inevitably ends up inviting the same/similar toxic situation(s) like the one OP was just in & (appears to have) escaped, would be a good idea…

[ca****]

Maybe reference this thread for her and see if she wants to view it... then gauge her response...  kinda has it all out in the open.

[sw****]

8 hours ago, Daddy_Solo_24 said:

Women love the chase bro, once they have caught you the thrill is gone! Women love mystery so you have to allow it to work, she has to question what your doing, never tell a woman everything you think and never tell them what you feel. You never validate her on how she makes you feel!!! Never ever ever acknowledge your feelings. Not even to yourself!!! And I quote this I promise " NEVER SAY THE WORDS I LOVE YOU" NEVERRRRR

Savage you 🤣… cold mann 😭

[Deleted Member]

Break up

[Sa****]

She's is non mono. You are mono. You need to discuss how to move forward with this

[Deleted Member]

Thank you to everyone that has commented and left advice. I did end things. There is a more detailed comment up above on it.

[im****]

I've been in every different kind of relationship with woman and find that some are easy to talk with others and very stand off and no matter what you say they are right and do nothing wrong.

[im****]

2 minutes ago, pussyeater941 said:

I've been in every different kind of relationship with woman and find that some are easy to talk with others and very stand off and no matter what you say they are right and do nothing wrong.

Id would have stayed in the relationship and took the bad with the good. But now I handle just enough bad and let it go. Plenty of people out there. Do what makes you happy.

[Da****]

Monday at 09:32 AM, sw1992 said:

Savage you 🤣… cold mann 😭

When it comes to woman bro it's all about psychological warfare, and woman don't even play fair!!!! Are you seriously going to sit here and tell me you have never witnessed a woman look you in the eyes while she is crying and still lie to you? .... Exactly women are way smarter then we give them credit for. But a woman's mind is her weakness and don't ever listen to a woman when she tells you what she wants cause she has no clue. Stop giving them so much time, attention, and just less EVERYTHINNG and watch how the tables turn. But just to be completely honest!!! It's over for the poster. You may as well leave now you will never have her the way you want

[Deleted Member]

2 hours ago, Daddy_Solo_24 said:

When it comes to woman bro it's all about psychological warfare, and woman don't even play fair!!!! Are you seriously going to sit here and tell me you have never witnessed a woman look you in the eyes while she is crying and still lie to you? .... Exactly women are way smarter then we give them credit for. But a woman's mind is her weakness and don't ever listen to a woman when she tells you what she wants cause she has no clue. Stop giving them so much time, attention, and just less EVERYTHINNG and watch how the tables turn. But just to be completely honest!!! It's over for the poster. You may as well leave now you will never have her the way you want

Drivel.

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Thank you Nexum 💜

[Deleted Member]

3 hours ago, Daddy_Solo_24 said:

When it comes to woman bro it's all about psychological warfare, and woman don't even play fair!!!! Are you seriously going to sit here and tell me you have never witnessed a woman look you in the eyes while she is crying and still lie to you? .... Exactly women are way smarter then we give them credit for. But a woman's mind is her weakness and don't ever listen to a woman when she tells you what she wants cause she has no clue. Stop giving them so much time, attention, and just less EVERYTHINNG and watch how the tables turn. But just to be completely honest!!! It's over for the poster. You may as well leave now you will never have her the way you want

Sir you are the only person I won’t thank. What you said is misogynistic and frankly disgusting towards women.

[Da****]

Call it what you want but it's true, it's not masochistic when it's the way we created. You can't argue biology. And it's exactly why you will never get the girl and dudes like me always get the girl. I have 6 girls I talk to that all know about each other and I got my choice of multiple women and still more trying

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5 hours ago, Daddy_Solo_24 said:

Call it what you want but it's true, it's not masochistic when it's the way we created. You can't argue biology. And it's exactly why you will never get the girl and dudes like me always get the girl. I have 6 girls I talk to that all know about each other and I got my choice of multiple women and still more trying

Misogyny at its finest. This is why won’t agree ever, I treat women with respect, kindness and trust. You assume that because I made a post about someone I love(not a side chick) and how I can’t seem to get her to stay that I can’t get women. Here’s the thing bub, women are not tools to make you happy. You have 6 women that you constantly rotate, good for you. I had one that I wanted to make my life partner and propose too, we’re not the same.

I don’t look for just myself, I look for someone that can grow with me in life. Not flings my guy. I’m sorry I don’t hunt down and prey on women with trauma(seems to be your MO)

At the end of the day though, I suppose you didn’t read my comments on the outcome.

I ended things with her. She even told me that she would drop the dom and I told her no, because the trust wouldn’t be there from me and so didn’t want to lead her on.

Sometimes with love you have to be willing to let the other person go. I did.

Thank you again everyone for your kind words and the advice.

[Da****]

7 hours ago, BluEyedDadBod said:

Misogyny at its finest. This is why won’t agree ever, I treat women with respect, kindness and trust. You assume that because I made a post about someone I love(not a side chick) and how I can’t seem to get her to stay that I can’t get women. Here’s the thing bub, women are not tools to make you happy. You have 6 women that you constantly rotate, good for you. I had one that I wanted to make my life partner and propose too, we’re not the same.

I don’t look for just myself, I look for someone that can grow with me in life. Not flings my guy. I’m sorry I don’t hunt down and prey on women with trauma(seems to be your MO)

At the end of the day though, I suppose you didn’t read my comments on the outcome.

I ended things with her. She even told me that she would drop the dom and I told her no, because the trust wouldn’t be there from me and so didn’t want to lead her on.

Sometimes with love you have to be willing to let the other person go. I did.

Thank you again everyone for your kind words and the advice.

Oh don't get it twisted I tried it once to!! By ***s mother was my best friend but to see the way she did me after all that time and everything we been through. And to be crossed the way she did me. Naw I'm good that's a mistake I'll only make once sry bub. I'm not stupid. Then I studied psychology for 5 years and found out the science behind human behavior and the proof is in the puddin. You just gotta open your eyes. But your right we are not the same we are completely different. And that's why your having woman problems and I'm not. So id rather deal with my problem then deal with woman trouble ever again

[mi****]

Give her distance... she cant miss whats still there. She misses the Doms lack of attention. Dont get strung along . Have some self respect. If she doesnt have time for you why are you giving it your all? Shes gettting what she wants at both ends....knowing you're still there... waiting. Move on.... nothing to see here. Before you become BlueBalledDadBod.

[Deleted Member]

Listen. You have to take charge. Not only of this, but your own wellbeing. I feel for you. Please though. You’re being a submissive pawn. Your emotional *** will only grow deeper. Don’t you understand that women in the world who need your type of awesomeness are in abundance. I hate the words “man up”. Detest it. But come on. The clock is ticking. Let other women see your beautiful magic.

[Di****]

Pull back start staying away from her no communication no calls or messages start a hobby take my mind off. You have to make her think oh I might lose him as long as your always there your going to be an option not choice.

That’s what I learned remember nice guys finish last .